i have a friend whos name is sheena.i have problem and its love.i am falling in love with her.we talk to each other 3 or 4 hours each day.she tells me everything.she talks to only one guy and thats me.i know i am very close to her.but when i told that'i love her'she said she doesnt like me.i told her that i cant forget her.i thought now she wont talk to me for long time.but i was wrong even though she knows that i love her.she talks to me regularly 2 or 3 hours each day.we meet each other regularly and i know when we are far from each other she miss me a lot.she is very good at heart but she doesnt express her feelings.even now she is telling me that her family has arranged her marriage when she was in 8th.and she loves that guy.but i know that she is lying because whenever she gets time she talks to me only.i am really very confused what to do.i will die if she will leave me.one thing i know that i am the only guy who is very close to her and that for sure.i cant live without her.i am not getting whats in her mind.she tells me everthing every little thing in her life.i can see love for me in her eyes.but she doesnt tell anything about it.every time i ask her about my love she says "she is not intersted in me" we are just friends.please help me friends.should i wait for her.she hurts me lot.she talks to me rudly but after some time forgets everything and says sorry.i know she cant live without me but its according to me.i cant think about other girl and she knows that.i tell her about every friend of mine.she knows i cant live without her.please help me.
2006-06-26 07:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by nilesj k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since I'm the only one who cared to read it, you should just wait, but not too long. Give her time and space so she can think about her feelings. Build the love up by not talking to her in a while, and then tell her you miss her and that you love her and everything you said on here. She'll have to say she loves you back.
2006-06-26 07:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Hot T-Bone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have let her know how you feel so don't let her walk all over you. Other girls would love to have a guy to treat them so good. She may get the picture of what she is missing if you move on. But don't let her be rude to you that is just now fair. You should be no ones door mat. You deserve better. And if it was meant to be it will happen. Maybe that is what is for the best. You have heard the saying " If you love someone let them be free and if they love you they will come back". Don't lay your heart out there anymore to her, let her come to you. Hold your head up and think better of yourself.
2006-06-26 07:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by lynnzhere7777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, because you're not inside her head you can't just assume that she's in love with you. I mean, sure she talks to you and tells you everything but she can be telling you all of these things because you are her friend and nothing more. I guess you should wait a little but not too long but don't pressure her by saying things like i love you all the time. Just wait and see how it turns out.
2006-06-26 07:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if you really love her and feel the same from her you should continue to try...Maybe the problem is that her marriage is arranged by her parents and they don't let her dte someone else. Try to talk to some of her girl friends..maybe the can help you with this. Anyway just fallow your heart and if you love eachother I'm sure that sooner or later it's going to work out :)
2006-06-26 07:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by iulia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love/Friendship....You can love someone as a friend and not be in love with them. You will have to accept that she loves you but not in the way that you would like her too. If you try and change her mind she will only resent you and it will lead to a broken friendship. what you must decide is if having her as a friend only is better than not having her at all. Do not focus on finding another girl, instead focus on your future, what job, industry, What are you going to do for work? You have to fulfill your happiness not depend on others to do that for you. When you are happy with yourself, your station in life that love relationship that you are looking for will find you. Don't go looking for Love. Love will find you. IF YOU HAVE THE LOVE THAT YOU SAY YOU DO FOR THIS GIRL YOU WILL RESPECT HER WHEN SHE SAYS THAT SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU IN THAT WAY AND ACCEPT IT. If not it is time to close the friendship and start your life anew.
2006-06-26 07:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by iamdreama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her telling you she doesn't like you means maybe she doesn't like you, what you could do to test her to see if she may like you or she just likes having a person to complain and talk to. You could start to date someone and start to talk to another girl and tell her about that girl.
Then only time will tell
2006-06-26 07:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you dont have to listen to what she said .. just continue loving her and sooner or later she will fall in love with you /./.
2006-07-03 18:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, seriously that is the longest thing ever!!!
Go see a Dr. he or she will help..
2006-06-26 07:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know
the story's too long
2006-06-26 07:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by hahahahaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i cannot read that...
2006-06-26 07:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋