i am 23 and i am very shy ,i blush when i talk to people,i am trying to repress my fellings but i still blush?

Question

when someone is talking about sex i try to participate but my mind is going crazy,u think there can be a solution?

Answer 1

I am still very shy, not as shy as you, but I believe it is a form of social anxiety. For me it has always been the case that I care about what others think of me, in a sense Im always going for the "right" answer. You really have to get over being embarrassed, and realize that occasionally that will happen to you. Also, for the meantime if you dont feel comfortable talking about something, just abstain.

Answer 2

The more you talk with people the more it will self cure this! I was very shy and embarassed easily growing up. I think I'm a lot better now than I ever was. Talking online can always help too because you don't have to worry about blushing then and you can practice for real life conversations. Just keep talking! :)

Answer 3

I feel for you. I am 41 and can still blush, but let me assure you that it will get better for you. The best thing to do is think of something else when someone is talking about sex. Pick something you can immediately think of that is completely opposite of sex, like your favorite sport or pet. It works for me.

Answer 4

well actually i used to be just like u when i was 20 now am 23 u know i was that typpa horrible shy ...even if a guy used to ask me my name i couldnt say my name or even dint want to go out with ma family or dint want to go out with ma friends i was in a very awful position til ma dady said ur so shy u have to get job or join some institude and u have to go alone coz where ever i wanted to go ma sister had to be along otherwise i couldnt even buy some thing or even talk to some one...so i got a job first 2 weeks was terrible coza was alone but after that i got ok now am the way that i feel no shy and i dont see any reason to be so shy ...when u want to go out try to dress up fly ...try to wear perfect clothes ...try to make up and get look better trust me u will get some confidence to talk to ppl all aside when u look so pretty u want to be with ppl u want to show urself and u want to talk to every body....and u just do ur stuff alone what ever it is ..talk to ppl

Answer 5

i'm 21, and i've always been kinda shy, i blush when someone says my name. i wear blush, the make up, so that when i start to blush, u can't tell as much. also u need to work on ur self esteem and confidence that will help.

Answer 6

I blush too, but I got over it b/c there is no way to hide it. I don't let my red face get in the way of what I want to say or do. Just embrace your blush.

Answer 7

it's ok to blush it just shows that ur who u are.Some plp think it's hot when sum plp blush.when someone is tlking about sex just act like u kno everything to having it and ur an expert,just relax.

Answer 8

i'm da solution