My husband and i had a really big fight and he didn't sleep with me last night nor he took the lunch i cook for him.....or say a work to me.
My Heart Hurts, What should i do for thing to be normall.
No cheating..involve.
2006-06-26 07:33:27 · 11 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe you can apologize by making him a nice dinner, leave rose peatls toward your bedroom where you will be for his dessert. Or maybe you can send him some flowers with a little note to his job saying how sorry you are. I'm not saying that the fight was your fault but you didn't give much detail so I'm assuming. And go get him a forget me not card, those all ways have the right things to say in them. Good luck and I hope this helps
2006-06-26 07:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to get over whatever is bothering him. Say something similiar to: "I'm ready to talk about our problem and work through it when you are. I love you very much and I know we can work this out so we are both happy." Keep being yourself and being open to the relationship. If it doesn't get better in a few days.... try again but be a little more firm : "We need to work through this because it is hurting me and our marriage." If he still is resistant then suggest he talk to a friend or a counsleor.
2006-06-26 14:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what the fight was about, but he may still be fuming. Give him some time to cool off then try to talk to him about it. Try talking about it neutrally. In between now and then, see if you can figure out where he is coming from and that will help you get a better understanding of what he is thinking or it will help prove why you are right.
2006-06-26 14:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your ego aside. Accept your fault, ask him his point of view and promise him that your part of the fault wont ever happen again. Once you do that, he will also realise his part of the fault, accept it and it should go on fine.
Remember the ultimate aim, that you both have to spend your lives together, in love. Whatever comes in the way has to be taken care of by both of you. Make him remind that too.
"All I know about love is, that love is all there is"
2006-06-26 14:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Truman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat ever the argument was about it will sort out
cook him a meal
some nice music
when he walks in
u can apologies and give him a big kiss
he should apologies to
it takes to people 2 start an argument
good luck
2006-06-26 14:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by faye r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come home to a house full of candles, a nice romatic dinner and you in nothing but a sexy nightie! If that doesn't ease the tention, I don't know what will!
2006-06-26 14:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk about how it started bein' a big thing in a great relationship and see if u should surprise him with something =~)
2006-06-26 14:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a few days, and dont try to communicate with him, it will amke him more big headed!
let him come to you. time heals everything (almost)
but when he does come, talk camly and even if it is not your fault, tell him, that you are sorry for whatever. and that if he is willing, then you are ready to work things out.
show him he is control, this will make him calmer
2006-06-26 14:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by set d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home from work, let him relax a little before telling him you two need to talk. I hope you guys work it out.
2006-07-03 16:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either eat a whole thing of chocolate ice cream or just wait. things will get better
2006-06-26 14:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Karissa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋