I am somewhat ashamed of this. I need some advice.
2006-06-26 07:31:16 · 84 answers · asked by Jamora 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is perfectly normal
2006-06-26 07:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ray T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey a bunch of 13 year olds trying to answer your question doesn't seem as though it's going to be much help. Here's some advice coming from someone a little older and far more experienced. Thiking about the same sex could possibly be just a phase or maybe even more than that. It is totally normal even if you always felt that you were not bi-sexual then suddenly you are curious. Curiosity doesn't always kill the cat, you just have to experiment and see what makes you happy and feels good. Search and you shall find. It's normal so good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for. By the way, I had to do a little experimenting myself and I discovered women are not my thing but they are still hot!
2006-06-26 07:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by TootsiePop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal and no you shouldnt be ashamed of it! You'r at an age where curiosity is perfectly normal. If you truely have an attraction to females you could be a lesbian or bisexual and theres nothing wrong with that either. My step daughter is 16 and bisexual. Fortunately she has very accepting and open minded parents, most kids arent so lucky, but don't be ashamed of yourself. Self exploration is the only way you will ever know what makes you happy! Keep a journal somewhere safe and get down to who you are. Find some support online too, just know your not alone! Email me if you need some help finding groups for support, I can get a list of where my daughter goes, they're safe, I've checked them out and they are monitored and you can talk about your feelings with people like you!
2006-07-09 17:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't be ashamed for your feelings. You cannot control what you feel.
I think sometimes thinking about sex with girls may not mean anything. Are you turned on by men also? I think questioning your sexuality may be a natural thing. I think you will figure it out given time. If you are only attracted to women then perhaps you are gay. It is not the easiest life but perhaps is the one you were given.
If it really troubles you speak to a counsler or someone you feel comfortable enough to talk to about such a personal matter.
I can tell you occasional arrousal and thoughts of women might not mean anything.
2006-06-26 09:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 year old girls are coming into their bodies. It is a weird time not only with the body changes but with your feeling and emotion changes. From 15-17 you're experiencing sexual discovery, and it is normal to wonder, and experiment with other girls. Don't worry about it, it doesn't mean that you ARE going to be a lesbian. And if you end up being a lesbian, then it doesn't really matter. It's obviously who you were meant to be, don't be ashamed of it.
2006-07-10 00:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't abnormal or anything to be ashamed about. Your still in the experimental stage. It's ok to think about it. If it is something you want to do go ahead, you can experiment.
This website below should help its full of Q and A from a bunch of teenagers feeling the same way you are. Take a look hopefully it helps
Good luck friend
2006-06-26 12:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by misses e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's times I would say that it is normal. Sex is out there every where. You see girls on girls all the time. I'm sure that after seeing it everywhere of course your going to think about it. If you are already sexual active and you want to try it I say go ahead if you hate it then you will know, its better then waiting until your married and then wanting to try it. Your young and you need to get all your questions answered before you grow up and start a family! Good luck!
2006-06-26 07:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by mbg25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. It's called curiosity. Everybody thinks of weird things sometimes and they have no idea why. It's just normally people don't tell others about it. Now if you are constantly thinking of yourself and a girl having sex.. and i mean this isnt a thought anymore its more of something u actually want to try out, then there is a chance you are "bi-sexual or a lesbian".
2006-07-09 11:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 16, I did not think too much about that stuff, but with all the things you teens are bombarded with today, it is no wonder you are now thinking about it.
Don't be ashamed, you are only think ing about it. Doesn;t mean you have to act on it.
Do you think about boys in the same way?
I think you are just curious....which is completely NORMAL!
Don;t worry,
2006-07-10 04:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal and this is what you call LESBIANS , just like a man would like man they are calle HOMO's .
You can get over it by trying to have by friends but loving and caring ones not those who just like to have sex
You can enjoy yourself with a girl because you WANT it you can change this habit if you so do wish.
But careful this may take some time you may not get any satisfaction with a boy then you have problems .
Enjoy the way you so wish but you can overcome this situation
Nobody can help you it is your wish you change or you continue
2006-07-09 04:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by San m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jamora,
You are perfectly normal,you are 16 years old and finding you place in society.
If you have no sexual experience you will not know if you are either straight/gay/bi.
Alot of young people think what it would be like to have a sexual experience with the same sex,i did,all my friends did,all their friends did.
Its as natural as young boys masturbating,you are normal.
Carry on just the way you are ok.
christy
2006-06-26 07:44:17 · answer #11 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋