I wasn't allowed to see him, and now that he is 18 we've had contact. I'm to see him in a few weeks, and not sure how to handle it. Any advise?
2006-06-26 07:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be a friend and take interest in him by getting to know him like you would a friend, not like a mom or a mom who has not been around. I met my day at age 25 and I was all excited about getting to know him and having fun with him, but I realized quickly that he had no fathering instincts (whihc was ok cuz i din't want a father figure all of a sudden) and pretty much was not a friend or someone I wanted to hang out with. He was boring, lazy and expected me to take care of his house and cook for him the shauvinistic bastard. I would have wanted for us to just chat about life and have a have a few drinks.
2006-06-26 07:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by moved 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I would approach the relationship as friends especially at first. Also, be patient with him just enjoy his company do not try to prove anything. It is probably not a good idea to bad mouth his mother either, he will be sensitive to that.
2006-06-26 14:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by clae_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, enjoy it. you make me wanna cry. i remember the feelings when i finally got to see mine. your gonna cry alot and touch his lil face. have a great day. wish i could give you a big smilie face.
2006-06-26 14:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every emotion will come out spontaneously directly frm ur heart, , , , , , , what u will b feeling, we cant even imagine,,,,,,,,,,
that's so great to hear,,,goodluck n happy bonding mannnnnnnn
2006-06-26 14:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by fuad_enjoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋