I love making love but my husband has not been so hot for me. Whenever we made love he did not ejaculate and said that he is happy to be that..Then his escapades with calling other woman and meeting with them although he said no sex with them....is this for real??? I need help trying to understand guy's sexual needs.
2006-06-26 07:28:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Hmy ... I read your other questions and it's obvious that you husband isn't monogamous or intends not to stay that way. The only reason why you'd be putting up with this is because
of low self esteem. You don't think you deserve any better and are desperate not to be alone. Perhaps at the moment you don't deserve any better. Think of what you can do to change that..
Make what ever changes you need to feel better about yourself. It could be education, work, even volunteer work. Whatever it is you probally should spend a lot less time here.
2006-06-26 07:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, some guys can't ejaculate. However, by the sounds of it, he actually can. Have you talked about what kinds of things 'work' for him? Communication is a very important part of a sexual relationship. If he is getting an erection, he is at least getting turned-on, but maybe it's just not being done the way he wants it. Some people have different needs. As far as the other women, I cannot say, because I would need to know more about the situation, however, judging by the way you said it, it doesn't sound too good.
2006-06-26 14:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, girl, while that can be normal, you've got a problem brewing with him and the other women. He may be telling the truth and with that he needs to see a medical doctor. If he is lying, then you need to be seeing a medical doctor to make sure he isn't bringing something home to you. Sure, much of what could be at risk to you would come in that which he is not giving you, but there is always some seepage as well as the mechanical innoculation of what may be unwashed on his head or shaft an that could range from a yeast infection to HIV.
Sorry. Some very special women have been able to ignore or look the other way to some degree (FDR and JFK had such, though some would lump Hillary's husband, but that pair weren't in the same class), but they also had very special husbands and still contributed in very special ways to what those husbands did. Unless you still contribute and your husband is very special, you've got a shipwreck in your future. Sorry.
2006-06-26 14:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is just not a word that seems to apply to matters of a sexual nature. Too many variations in that matter for normal to apply to the vast majority of it. As long as what is happening is between consenting adults.....then it is normal. The only reason that I can see him calling other women and meeting with them is possibly the fact that he is a closeted Mary Kay representative and is saving that money to buy you a huge diamond ring with the profits from his clients. I can think of no other reason for a "happily married Man" to be phoning and meeting with women who are not his wife. There might be the possibility that your husband does not "ejaculate" with them either and this could be his definition of no sex.....maybe if he doesnt *** it wasn't sex.
You are the only one who can judge whether or not what he is telling you is for real or not.
2006-06-26 14:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by andrew v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband make love , and he does not ejaculate, there is something BAD wrong. As a man, he can do it anytime, almost any place, even in his sleep. It's NO trouble for us to .If he's not doing it in you, he's doing it in someone else. Having sex, and not cu*, is like getting all dressed up, with nowhere to go. What's the use, if there's no "payoff?" You need to find out what's going on with him! Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 14:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allow your husband to call and meet other women?
I think you need to put your "foot" down or maye up his rear!
His not ejaculating......... may be he has been foolin' around and has some mental block or guilt.
Make sure he as no STD's!
2006-06-26 14:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by greatdane2us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said it yourself: "his escapades with calling other woman and meeting with them." He doesn't *** with you because he's doing it with others he finds more exciting. sorry, but that's what I think, and maybe you do too :-(
2006-06-26 14:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by unintendedmilf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl!
bad sex he's not cumin for you
plus he is cheaten? find a new man
you need to know what it's like to be with a guy who is total into you
2006-06-26 14:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sick , and I think you both need to got some advice from expert
2006-07-03 18:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by zaaterah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋