i cant live its love please help me friends?

Question

i have a friend whos name is sheena.i have problem and its love.i am falling in love with her.we talk to each other 3 or 4 hours each day.she tells me everything.she talks to only one guy and thats me.i know i am very close to her.but when i told that'i love her'she said she doesnt like me.i told her that i cant forget her.i thought now she wont talk to me for long time.but i was wrong even though she knows that i love her.she talks to me regularly 2 or 3 hours each day.we meet each other regularly and i know when we are far from each other she miss me a lot.she is very good at heart but she doesnt express her feelings.even now she is telling me that her family has arranged her marriage when she was in 8th.and she loves that guy.but i know that she is lying because whenever she gets time she talks to me only.i am really very confused what to do.i will die if she will leave me.one thing i know that i am the only guy who is very close to her and that for sure.i cant live without her.i am not getting whats in her mind.she tells me everthing every little thing in her life.i can see love for me in her eyes.but she doesnt tell anything about it.every time i ask her about my love she says "she is not intersted in me" we are just friends.please help me friends.should i wait for her.she hurts me lot.she talks to me rudly but after some time forgets everything and says sorry.i know she cant live without me but its according to me.i cant think about other girl and she knows that.i tell her about every friend of mine.she knows i cant live without her.please help me.

Answer 1

How old are you? I can see me in you the way you are emotional over her...but believe me its not worth pursuing a person who cannot express what they want and cant take it to commitment. But if you want to know exactly what is in her mind....the best thing to do is gradually make yourself less and less available for her.Say 10 minutes a day or so. I know it will kill you. If she feels something for you she will definitely want to know and will feel that you meant more to her....she will open up her mind and atleast be dead curious to know whats happening in your mind. If she doesnt come back then I am sorry, you were just a 4 hr entertainer. Then let her go. Its better for you and her. We cant compel and make people love us. If she doesnt want a committed person thats her problem, she will get to know later that committed men are a rare species.Thats enough punishment...Go on with your life in that case and achieve what you want to. One day she will know what she missed. Some girls are very confused and too choosy ever in deciding such things. It just doesnt work with them. Just move on ...you have nothing to lose.

Answer 2

maybe she's being like this to you because you are her friend and she feels she can talk to you cause she has an arranged marriage and she needs to stay faithful to that because she doesn't want to cause drama with her family. And you being her friend should respect that. I know we can't help who we fall in love with and it's not fair at times. But maybe she tells you that she loves him because she's arranged to marry him. She keeps telling you that she's not in love you but only sees you as her friend. You need to respect that. Do you think that you see love in her eyes for you cause you want to see that cause you love her so much? Sounds like she's made it obvious that your just a friend to her. If you keep pushing the love thing on her your gonna end up pushing her away.Just because you love her so much doesn't mean that she's gonna love you the same back. I think what this is about is that she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you do for her. Seriously you need to stop pushing the love thing on her cause pretty soon you'll start to make her feel uncomfortable around you and she'll eventually be pushed away. Best of luck to you.