2006-06-26 07:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by Reda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you sure can not sue her. Things and people change and we change our minds as well. Let it go.
2006-06-26 07:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep to your end of the agreement. She, on the other hand, unless she marries the person in question, now has a task before her that is humanly impossible. For she has left a bit of herself with that person, and that person has left a bit of him/herself with her(1). Fortunately, with God all things are possible.(2)
What she needs to do (and for that matter, if there is anything you need to start over with, and everyone has such things in their life...) is turn to God. Trust in what He's already done for you(3), and ask Him for a new heart - that clean slate you need to start over again and do it right(4). Doing it right will mean waiting until marriage, because once you've gone all the way, breakups are not supposed to happen(5).
Take these verses to heart: "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you shall find; knock and the door shall be opened to you(6)".
And these:
Trust in the Lord and do good
Dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture
Delight yourself in the Lord
And He will give you the desires of your heart
Commit your way to Him,
Trust in Him and He will do this:
He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn
The justice of your cause like the noonday sun(7).
And if you ever has doubts about whether He 'really did it', just remember that He is real, and think about how good He is, and think of this: can you take a child and separate it, saying the left half was Mom's doing, and the right half was Dad's doing?
In the same way, our lives are like that: our input and God's input are like two sides of the same coin. He is always there for us, as it were waiting at the marriage altar like a groom on his wedding day. Above all, hasten to that altar, for that is the best for you.
May God bless you and keep you both
2006-06-26 14:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women make you wait as part of a test to see if you are a high quality man or not. High quality men absolutely do not wait. They offer you sex and if you don't want it, they move on to the next woman who absolutely does want it.
When you agreed to wait, you failed the test and she lost all attraction to you. What you don't know is she has been testing lots of other men like this behind your back. One of them passed the test by telling her that if she doesn't want to have sex with him right now, he isn't interested in her. So, she had sex with him.
This is one of the many things about women that most men don't understand but need to learn and take into account in order to get what they want with women.
Also. Virginity does not matter. Women do not form permanent attachments for the most part and things like losing her virginity to a guy are meaningless (100% of women lie about this issue but their behavior tells a different story). What I am getting at here is if you want to have sex with her, go right ahead. Feel free to dump her afterward or not. It just doesn't matter. She doesn't matter. Women are for sex AND NOT MUCH ELSE.
2006-06-26 14:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do. It's not like your friend can get her virginity back LOL.
If remaining a virgin until you graduate is important to YOU, then you should. Don't compromise your beliefs or morals just because your friend did.
If your friend wants to talk about her escapades, you can choose to listen w/o commenting.
There is nothing wrong w/being a virgin. There is nothing wrong w/waiting until the right person comes along. It is a very personal & sacred thing to each of us. How we choose to go to the next, intimate step w/another human being & allow them to see us at our most vulnerable (w/all our blocks down) should be a big deal, because it is. Once we go there w/another person, it changes a piece of us & how we view ourselves & the world, completely. There's no going back after that.
Best of luck to you!
2006-06-26 14:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you manage to get through high school not knowing how to type, spell and use proper english? did your five year old cousin type this question?
2006-06-26 14:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by todd_76705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything about it If you love her thean go with it if not too bad
2006-06-26 14:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels best, you should keep your promise but she broke hers so you can break yours
2006-06-26 14:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by missinglink_1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go about your life and not worry about what she did if you still want to keep your virginity then do it but if you don't then don't
2006-06-26 14:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sheena O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt that her business? It's her body her choice. what can you do? still be her friend. and make your own choice
2006-06-26 14:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
2006-06-26 14:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋