If you found out that your husband has been calling other woman on the phone day and night and lose interest to have sex with you..does this mean that he loves the other woman even though it has been over a short period?? I cannot realy understand his reason to betray our marraige and putting lame excuse for what he did.. Guys do you know why??
2006-06-26 07:18:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes... it's plain and simple....men can't resist temptation or sex. He can love you and still have a need to play. All men go through this and it stinks. You can either divorce him and end up with another man who does you this way too or just work through the crisis and move on with your lives as a married couple. Just because we're married doesn't mean our husbands aren't human. Men aren't women and they just don't think well when all the blood rushes from their brains to their penis. If he doesn't want to leave then don't worry....he wouldn't trade you in for the world. I bet if you were to start dressing up and going out now and then he would become very worried and think about what he's done even more. Either way, don't you dare blame yourself or believe it's your fault for any reason at all. Realize that he's got the problem and don't allow it to consume you. Instead do the reverse and show him exactly what he left at home that is so much better!!!
2006-06-26 07:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by TGal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you have a steak every day for dinner, even the best steak, you want to try out a hamburger or even a Salisbury Steak once in a while. That's not an excuse--just a reason. Guys figure, "How will taking one bite of a White Castle cause me to lose my Prime Rib?" White Castles have their own alluring smell--the problem is, the aftertaste isn't worth it. My advice is for guys to stick with the steak, and maybe put a little Montreal Pepper or A-1 on it every once in a while.
2006-06-26 14:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by hawley5150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is missing something in your relationship would be my guess. He's just not happy. And I'm not trying to upset you or make you mad, but in what I have found in my experience with other friends and so forth that when a man starts to wonder, either he's an a**hole or he's missing something in his marriage that he feels that he needs. Yes you can fall quick for another person, but more then likely it's falling for the idea of another person and if he's losing interest in you, he's getting it else where! He is needing the excitement more then anything, he's probably bord. If he's going to do that to you, then you don't need him, you need to go out and find your own excitement! He's not worth it and just remember that everything happens for a reason! But if he does it once, he will do it again and again! Your best bet sister girl is to move on even though it's a hard step to make, but no one deserves to be cheated and lied to. There is someone better out there for you that will love you and adore you and you need to go find him!
2006-06-26 14:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The male body is mor or less run by his penis. The "man of your dreams" is very easily caught, but for a guy to have a dream about one girl... thats a little far stretched out. No matter who wou are there is always some other girl out there that catches your guy's eye. The men that decide to go and pursue that other woman is the guy that most guys dont want to be but almost cant help it. As far as betraying marriage, thats just a legal bond, not a loving heart to theart bod that lasts forever, and thats why there is divorce.
2006-06-26 14:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perversion. Your husband is having sex with the other woman, specifically because it is immoral for him to do so. This is a sex addiction thing. Not in the wanting to have sex too much (very difficult physically for a man to do), but in the perverted nature of that sex. There is only a limited amount of sex he can engage in so he pulls it away from you and toward the perverted stuff.
You need to confront him on this issue and make him seek counseling for this problem. If he won't, you might as well leave him. Most people would not even do that much. They would simply leave.
2006-06-26 14:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's looking for the excitement that you once had, the butterflies. In an affair, there's only the good sex and excitement,
none of the stress over money, kids, etc. If you could eliminate the urge to question him, nag him, or whatever, and allow him to relax with you & have fun, he would probably be in your marriage instead of looking outside of it. Sometimes, there are people who just like to cheat, they won't stop and there's nothing you can do about that except to leave them or accept it.
2006-06-26 14:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by dana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found this out for a fact...you know what to do. He has separated himself from your marriage...now you need to separate from him. This does two things. It sends a clear message that this WILL NOT be tollerated. Also it gets you away from him. The next step to what his is doing is what most ppl call an affair. This still could be "patched up" between you two but not without honesty and marriage counciling.
2006-06-26 14:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all love and sex have nothing to do with each other, a guy can love one woman , and still have sex with another, with out have any more emotiion than that of pleasure, , try new things in bed , in new areas, and more often, u are probably in a rut , and niether of u want to face it or to talk about it,
2006-06-26 15:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his cake and eat it to, no nerve to tell you what he needs or wants
no respect for the vows he made,woman make this easy, have you asked him,maybe it's as simple as plying games in your own bedroom,there are so many reasons most of the time it's just communication.
2006-06-26 14:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by we_c_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX and the thrill of getting it without getting caught ***men never forget the chase
2006-06-26 14:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by fact checker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋