Me and him are very close and even though we're young we both love each other. Ive talked to him about my periods and he's helped me,and we also talked about sex. We've also made up names for our kids we want when we're older and where we want to live and where we want to go on our honeymoon. We both like talking about it but we're young what sould i do?
2006-06-26 07:18:32 · 20 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Wow,he seems like he is a good boyfriend and a great friend,that's good that ya'll r waiting and that your open to talk about stuff,I think that's ok,your not to close it's cool u can talk to a guy about that kind of stuff and him be ok and not get all grossed out,you got one of the greatest guys ever!
2006-06-26 07:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 7⤊ 4⤋
You are both young. You don't even need to be talking about sex, kids, your honeymoon and where you want to live yet. Right now just enjoy each others company and see what happens for you and him in the future. You are young - enjoy it!
2006-06-26 14:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!!! There's no way you can know what you will want when you've matured, completely. And you can never, EVER take it back. So, I would definitely wait until you're a few years older to see what the future holds. Also, if you do wait and you're still with the same guy, it will even be MORE special when you finally do make love.
2006-06-26 14:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by dana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having hopes and dreams is one thing, making it a reality is another. But remember, u are 13, so having a sexual relationship would be wrong. If u take ur time, u may find out that you need to wait and make sure that you both really DO have the same goals. But please wait on the sex stuff.
2006-06-26 14:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥NICOLE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg its wierd because I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15 and we do exactly the same thing.we talk about everything but if i were you ide take it slower because right now we are still together but can hardly talk to each other without fighting.Its alright to be close and everything just wait a while before you get any more intament
2006-06-26 14:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is great if you are able to talk to your BF about anything specially the embarrassing stuff but just don't try to go to fast. Yall have plenty of time to do all of the things you talk about. If you get in a hurry you will regret it later. At your age all of your hormones are starting to go crazy and you think others are doing it and you wonder how it feels......but trust me.....his hormones are going crazy too and no matter how much he says he loves you and it won't change things.....it will. If he really loves you he will wait.......
2006-06-26 14:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by H M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sounds normal to me.
i mean, you realize that you guys are young and you just daydream and talk about things.
there's nothing wrong with talking....
i would be concerned if you guys are having sex and trying to get pregnant to make those daydreams a reality!
if you are just musing to yourselves that when you get married you'd like to live in florida with 2 kids named jimmy and karen, well, then i don't think you're doing anything different from what i did and my friends did with their boyfriends...at your age.
if this weirds you out, though, then tell him that you thought you were ready for talk like this, but now you aren't so sure....
you're change of enthusiasm may be a sign that you aren't really into the relationship as much as before....it may be time to think about moving on.
take care.
2006-06-26 14:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You too are way to young to get married and/or have children. You're both still children yourselves. There will be plenty of time for all that when you're older and children are something that will change your life forever. Enjoy being young slow down.
2006-06-26 14:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've beenin tghe same situation as you. Right now we've been togerther for 2 and a half years. I'm 13 he's 15 and i will always love him no matter what. If you really love him no age is to young to be close....... just dont have sex!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-26 21:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Love is a truly wonderful gift to have. Please, if you can wait until marriage before you have sex then wait. Not because I think you shouldn't, but because you may end up regretting it if he turns out to not be the one.
I felt really bad when I got married last year and my husband was virgin and I was not. It's the most precious gift you could ever give someone.
2006-06-26 14:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by qatsuq45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down everything you want to do,have or name another thing you could do is maybe get a small pet together that a few things you can do till you are older just to let you know i am the same age as
2006-06-26 14:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by angel_pup93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋