i like this boy alot and every time i see him i get this feeling inside me and i dont know if is love or i just like him alot
2006-06-26 07:07:48 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany is single 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's not love yet, that's a crush. When you get to know him better, maybe you fall in love, maybe you don't. Be careful- love hurts. Good luck sweetie, I hope you get him!
2006-06-26 07:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've posted this elsewhere on Answers too, but it seems relevant to the matter at hand. The difference between lust and love:
Lust is when you 'love' him because you have to - because your hormones are making you do it - and only after that start finding excuses to do loving things.
Lust is when you want to take without giving at least as much in return.
Lust is when you calculate how much you're going to give by how much you're getting.
Lust is when you marry him because he's giving you what you want, and you just 'have to have it'.
Lust is when you move on because you're not getting what you want from the relationship (even though there are good reasons, having nothing to do with feelings, that a permanent relationship between you would make sense).
Lust is when you move on just because someone else is giving you what you want, while the one you're with isn't (and there's no other, better reason).
Lust is when you can't live without him, and are just devastated when he breaks up with you or says difficult things to you.
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Love is when you have made all those little choices to 'love your neighbor as yourself', and all of a sudden after a while you find you've got a huge soft spot for him in your heart, and you suddenly notice he's handsome, and then...
Love is when you wait until you're ready for a permanent relationship before doing anything that will bind you together permanently.
Love is when you give for the joy of giving. Period.
Love is when you marry because you believe that there's something you will be able to do together, and maybe already are doing it, and you'll be able to do it better if you marry.
Love is when he's rejected your marriage proposal, you sometimes don't even dare dream of 'being with him' anymore - and you don't feel the need to 'make yourself move on'. You are happy with your life.
Love is when, when you're with him, you're so happy to be with the one you love that you forget the hard things he's said to you.
In other words, love is when he's in your heart, but you don't 'have to have him' - but neither do you 'have to move on'. You love him because you choose to.
2006-06-26 07:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see just by seeing the guy whateva u feel is just attraction
love truly is when you can actualy care bout the other person selflessly
u wont need to ask urself if ur in love u'll just be sure
u cant "love" him till you know him well and till u know how u feel when u are with him
Good Luck neways!
2006-06-26 07:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by PaRtY AnGeL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you feel this way it could be puppy love, but give yourself a few more weeks down the line and see how you feel then if its the same feeling, then maybe you can start looking at things differently.
2006-06-26 07:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what you want,I think you love that boy a lot.
2006-06-26 07:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were in love, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You would already know the answer!
2006-06-26 07:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this happened to me its love when you move away and still feel strongly on and on etc :D
2006-06-26 07:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sleeping with him.
2006-06-26 07:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know for one you can't stop thinking about them
2006-06-26 07:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋