I was really scared and didnt fight back fearing he might kill me. but I kind of enjoyed it when he was doing it, what should i do.
2006-06-26 07:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are serious then you need to do something. This could just be a test by your BF to see what kind of sick crap he can get away with. You may not enjoy his little jokes in the future, by then he may go too far ( sounds to me like he already did). He may do this with a future girlfriend and they may not "kind of enjoy it" at all.
2006-06-26 07:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this same question in Men's Health & Women's Health, that's interesting. I already answered the other one.
Did you really think he was going to kill you? Or did you know who he was & what he was doing & why he was doing it? Your other questions on yahoo are all sex questions- have you and your bf talked about fantasies like this before? Did he have any reason to think this is something you wanted to do, or to know that you wouldn't report him as rape?
Ultimately, it's your choice whether to report him to police, to break up with him, to tell him not to do it again, or to let him get away with it. Or, if you enjoyed it, there's nothing wrong with asking him to do it again. People get turned on by lots of different things, you don't have to be ashamed of that. But if you decide its rape and he had no right, they it's your duty to report him so he doesn't think he can do it to someone else.
2006-06-27 14:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he should be apologizing for it because there was no way he could have known what your reaction would have been.
Thank God you don't sleep with a gun under your pillow RIGHT?
Second, the liking it part is ok, there is nothing wrong for you to feel the eroticism of it. Even if it at the time was a vile act.
I think that is in part why so many women of rape struggle so hard with this issue. They feel dirty from the rape and feel dirty because they kind of enjoyed it. That is one hell of a conflict to go through in ones mind.
2006-06-26 14:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really need to talk to him no matter if he is ur bf or not. even if u did enjoy it u could be pregnant, and what kind of joke is that i think that u should dump him cuz that is not cool!
2006-06-26 14:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by youmakeme♥you. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a matter of ur enjoying it but u must go for investigation because if u do not put the step forward then it could be repeated with some of ur associates too. b brave
2006-06-26 14:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's your bf's idea of a joke then he needs some serious help... his sexual pleasure wasn't because of you... he got off on your fear of your life and his control over you... next time it may not be you he rapes... or he's already raped someone else and hasn't told you.
2006-06-26 14:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Patti B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either seek help or keep things like this too yourself,do you know how many people you could upset by posting stuff like this.
christy
2006-06-26 14:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is NOT ok. You need to talk to him! What if , the next time, it turns out to be someone who is NOT your boyfriend, and you think it is!
2006-06-26 14:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by gemary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no exuse for rape....even if he is ur bf...u might be pregnant!!! and what kind of joke is that??? i say dump him
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2006-06-26 14:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT ok!!!!!!!!!! You should talk to him about it or dump him.That is not a funny joke.
2006-06-26 17:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋