I want to know what people think of adoption vs. abortion??

Answer 1

Every abortion kills an innocent human being. Every abortion is murder. See:

Photos of abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A four-minute, must-see video on abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on all aspects of abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and facts about prenatal development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Pain perception in the unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Placing a child for adoption, on the other hand, is often the most loving, unselfish, courageous thing a mother can do. For benefits of adoption, see:

http://www.lifeissues.org/connector/display.asp?page=03oct.htm
(scroll down to the second article)

Here's a list of some famous people who were adopted:

http://www.lifeissues.org/chosenchildren/adoption.html (scroll down)

Other sites that might be helpful to you:

Abortion stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, confidential help at a pregnancy center near you (referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Support for pregnant teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Answer 2

Abortion is a personal choice and should be your own decision. No one else should have the right to tell you what to do with your body. As for adoption, educate yourself beyond all the adoption propaganda you get from agencies, lawyers (this is a multi million dollar industry, they see $$$) and desperate want to be parents (Can't have their own. Your child is 2ND best, a replacement for the child they can't have.) Start educating yourself by reading "The Primal Wound". Go to http://groups.msn.com/Adoptese message board and talk to adoptees and Mothers who lost their babies. Adoption will cause life long trauma for you and your baby. It is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Don't believe any open adoption lies either. The minute you sign those papers the adopters can and in most cases do, close the adoption. They got the product they wanted and you have no legal rights.

Answer 3

I don't believe in abortion. The only time I would even consider abortion being ok,is if the child were created from incest rape. But adoption is better than abortion 100%.

Answer 4

Adoption is a beautiful thing. You are giving a life to someone who may not be able to have their own baby for many reasons. It is the greatest gift you can give to another human being. You have to be completely unselfish to go through all that a woman goes through for her nine months of pregnancy and then hand your beautiful baby over to someone else. I admire anyone who could do that. Adoptions bring life to the world. Abortion ends it.

Answer 5

I think adoption would be a more reasonable thing. But I would only go for abortion if the woman was EXTREMELY young or got raped.

Answer 6

I am a Pro-Life activist. Abortion is sick, wrong, and just another way to say "Murder." Except, to put it technically, it's "murder of an innocent, unborn child who hasn't done anything wrong, who is denied their right to life in the most disturbingly cruel way."

Honestly, people say, "Women should have the right to choose what they do with their own bodies." But does that mean she has the right to pick up a gun and shoot someone? Doesn't that mean that a man has the right to "choose" to rape a woman? Shouldn't they have the right to say, "I CHOSE to do this, therefore, it MUST be right." There are restrictions on what someone should be allowed to "choose" to do!

It's legal. Some say that it being legal makes it right. It's legal...

so was slavery.

Answer 7

It really depends on the circumstances, in my opinion a 10-16 year old who's peggers should consider it, no, they shouldn't have been having sex in the first place but the baby is the one who is going to pay the price for their immaturity, inability to afford it, etc not to mention it ruining their lives, also in cases of rape or molestation resulting in pregnancy. I don't support it being used as mindless birth control, but do feel certain situations support it's use. Adoption is a beautiful thing, but look to see how many kids are in the system, unwanted, bouncing from cracked up foster home to foster home, that's no way to live either, with no one who loves you or a permanent home.

Answer 8

Everyone says adoption but how many of you are adopting these unwanted children? Not many! Our child welfare system in the united states is ridiculous. So many unwanted children growing up in the system moving all their lives not knowing who there parents are is sickening to me. so if we keep putting children up for adoption i believe evryone of you who say to do that should adopt one child. I am Pro- choice. And will have childen one day when iam ready and will adopt also because i feel bad. Stop adopting children from other damn countries when we have plenty here in need of homes!!!!!

Answer 9

I think that adoption is better than abortion, but the way I see it, if you wanna spread your legs and get pregnant, you should take care of the consequences!! Abortion should be illegal!

Answer 10

Don't make the same mistake I did...
Dear La’Vitta,

My Precious baby… I miss you so much. I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am. I regret what I did. I wish I could have died on that table when you did. I thought school and my dreams were more important and that you and I would have a bad life if you were born. Now I realize that you my child, my baby would be more important than any of that. Your birth date is coming up. No matter if I have another baby or not you were my first. You always will be. You are my special baby. I’m so sorry I was supposed to protect you. I was your mom. Ever since they sucked your poor little helpless body out of me I have felt so empty. Nobody knows pain and emptiness like I do. They said you couldn’t feel it but I know you could. I read it in a book that you already had developed your nerve endings. I hope I die as painfully as you. Even more so. I would give anything to take that day back. To have just run out of that room. Out of that murdering house of innocent souls. I wish I could have felt you kick. I wish I could hold you. I would have been the luckiest woman in the world to hold you in my arms. No one told me no Vitta! Everyone told me to do it. Why did I listen to them? I hate Jaime! I hate my mom! And most of all I hate your dad for not being a good person cause if I would have got pregnant by a good man I would have kept you. I was just so scared you wouldn’t have a daddy. Everyone told me if I had you, we wouldn’t have a good life. But Vitta, I would have done everything in my power to make you the happiest little girl in the world. That would have been the best moment in my life, to see you being born. I’d have so many pictures of you I’d have to rent an extra room. I wouldn’t care if a man didn’t want me cause I had you. **** him! I would have worked at Wendy’s all my life if I had to. I couldn’t use the option of adoption cause I just wouldn’t be able to give you away once I seen you or even just you kicking in my belly. How selfish of me. Now here I am still having sex! I have been so destructive to my self and my body since you’ve been gone. Multiple partners, doing porn, lying, cheating, … it’s like I am trying to make myself hurt. Life isn’t worth living without you. When I do have a baby… I will never love that baby like I love you. Any real love I had died when you died. Any ounce of dignity got sucked right out of me along with you. I am so ****** up now. I want to go to that clinic and tell all those girls, don’t do it! Don’t make the same mistake I did! But that won’t bring you back. None of those girls will be affected the way I am cause as I said nobody loves their dead baby more than I do. This is so painful to write but I finally had to do it! I will bury this letter just as you should have been with respect! I was a month pregnant when I found out about you. Took me two months to make a decision. It actually wasn’t completely made up; I just had to do it before the deadline. If I had a little more time to think I wouldn’t have done this. I cried every day you were inside me trying to figure out what to do.
I want to slit my throat. I would imagine my blood is my pain. As the pain seeps out of my body I would slip away to a place of darkness… leaving behind the reality of the horrible thing I did. I can’t live without you anymore baby.

Love,
Mommy

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