Some1 came into my room when sleeping, blinded & tied me up and raped me, it turned to be my BF playing a joke

Question

It really scared me, but it felt good and exciting while he was doing it. what should i do?

Answer 1

THIS IS DATE RAPE!!!! I would seriously consider reporting this. Sexual deviants start with something small and work their way up to more aggressive worse acts. It's kinda like a peeping tom who then exposes himself in public and then starts to mingle in crowds and touch people inappropriately, etc. It would have been ok if this was something you had agreed to beforehand and were role playing or something.
Also many women who are raped say that their body experienced feelings of pleasure, this is normal. At the very least you should see a counselor or therapist to discuss this and see what they think of the situation. Or at least call a rape hot line and ask what they think

Answer 2

What "should" you do? What do you want to do?
If you're angry at him or scared of him, you report it as rape or you break up with him.
If you're not that mad at him, you tell him that "rape" isn't a joke, and that you don't mind what he did if he doesn't do it again...or at least doesn't scare you to do it.

If "it felt good and exciting" even if it was a little scary, then you've found out something new about yourself and what you like. He should've given you more warning, but odds are you said something or gave some hint that you'd be open to this or he wouldn't have tried something like this- he thought you'd like it and he wouldn't go to jail or he'd never have done it.

So, just be careful & work on the communication, but there's no reason you have to be ashamed of liking what he did to you.
If it was an ex bf or a stranger or someone you didn't want, then it's rape. If it's your bf, someone you know- then you get to decide if it was rape or not. Pressing charges is up to you.

Answer 3

Do not post questions like this on "Answers" consult a doctor, physician, nurse practitioner, or the police or other emergency personnel instead!!!!

There are several issues at stake here:

1). Consent: If you set this up in advance, talked about it ad naseum, agreed to doing it, or whatever, then "You can't rape the willing". Unless you fought with all your life to get away from him and screamed, bit him, scratched at him, or otherwise defend yourself, he did not rape you.
2). Jokes, pranks, sexual role play amongst couples needn't be taken so heavily, unless it is harmful to you or you are unwilling to participate. There is such a thing as "No".
3). Consider that your beau didn't introduce a fantasy or fetish into your relationship properly. Scold him, or break-up.
4). Get checked for STDs/HIV/pregnancy. Unless you are 100% certain (in the question of pregnancy) that he used a condom...
5). Did he act alone, or was some one with him? If he was alone, how was he able to subdue you, and tie you? You had to have been a willing participant, or had a way of knowing it was him.

Answer 4

Have you considered acting like Lorrana Bobbitt, cut it off! Your boyfriend is sick, the statistics are that a man who rapes once will rape again,...what if he does this to someone else?

Answer 5

do it back! jk, if u didn't like it, tell him. if u did, well, that's good! if he had u scared, he should really go into the acting buisiness. lol. u don't really have to do anything, though.

Answer 6

Dump his sorry a$$, he is a sick individual ,he must have
rape in his blood

Answer 7

Have him do it again. You appearently enjoyed it.

Answer 8

if u consented it's not a crime..otherwise report him!!

Answer 9

I dunno clearly you have BDSM fetish...maybe you like pain and domination...there are TONS of books out there which will create and further your fantasies

Answer 10

break up with him