2006-06-26 06:58:51 · 38 answers · asked by ButterfliKissus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is a very difficult situation. Alot of things need to be considered. Do you have children? How will it effect you if you plan to have children or more children? How long can your granfather be on dialysis? How long before he could get a transplant from a transplant list? I think it's great that you would be willing to help out your grandfather, but this is dont as simple as donating blood, this can be life changing. Talk with you parents and your doctor to help you make the dicession. Good Luck to you and your grandfather.
2006-06-26 07:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by onlygroovychick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best advice would be to check with the doctors. Your grandfather should have a transplant team that you would have to be in contact with in order to be a donor. Have you been through all the testing yet to know that you could be a for sure donor? There are many tests that are done to determine if you could be a donor... so you may find that one thing out of like 10 doesn't allow you to donate.
Also, take into account of you want to have children. Kidneys play such a large role during pregnancy that you may not want to if you plan on having children. The recovery is also long and painful. You may miss 3-4 months of work and normal living. If you have children or other plans, I would say no.
Have you talked with your grandfather? How does he feel about this? I know that my grandparents would tell me 'no' just because that's how they are. I come first to them and they understand the importance of kidneys especially for women of child-bearing age, and at 72 he may or may not be close to death even with a transplant. Another thing to consider: if his body rejects the transplant and he dies, how would you feel? There is a lot of pressure on someone who donates.
Maybe there is someone else in the fmaily who is a match? Someone even in the previous generation who is older and is done having children, etc. I think that your grandfather should respect your decision no matter what. And I don't know of too many grandparents who would want their grandchildren to suffer for them.
I hope this helps. My mom is waiting for a kidney transplant and it can be avery difficult situation. Best of luck!
2006-06-26 07:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would in a heartbeat. I was in the situation where my dad needed a kidney, and I am a match for him, and I gave him one of mine. I have never regretted it, and I don't think I ever will. You will feel much better about yourself after you do. However, it is your choice, and you don't have to, but think of how happy it will make your grandfather.
2006-06-26 07:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw. Let the old geezer kick. 72 is plenty old and he's using too many of Earth's resources, and for the rest of your life you can enjoy the hatred of the rest of your family. Maybe you can blackmail him into changing his will, huh? Say, 1 kidney for $1,000,000? or whatever he's got. That could be fun.
uh, WHY ARE YOU EVEN GIVING IT A SECOND THOUGHT?
2006-06-26 07:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? you never know how long he will live. he can go as far as 100 years old. but if you didnt donate one of your kidneys to him, he would live with pain. besides, you are young and you can live fine with just one kidney. and your grandfather needs that kidney to continue living. i dont see what so bad about it. your whole family will be so proud of you and your grandfather will be so thankful to you. make a wise decision!
2006-06-26 07:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely do it!! Only having one kidney doesn't seriously affect your life, and you will have given your grandpa another couple of years. Beleive me, at that age, it must be so depressing to know that you will die soon. If you say no, your whole family will look at you as being a very selfish person. But, if you do, your family members and friends will see you as a very generous and loving person. I would rather be seen as that.
2006-06-26 07:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With current Medica Technology, Your Grandfather, if in otherwise good health could have another 10 to 20 years. (more importantly you'd have him for another 10 to 20 years)
I'd say do it, He's your grandfather. I'm sure he still has alot he can teach you, and if you have any, your children as well.
2006-06-26 07:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should ask ur grandfather first and see what he says but if u and ur grandfather are in an real close relationship u should go ahead and do it.
2006-06-26 07:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by imacutiey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...how sweet of you to consider this...you are such a great granddaughter.
i think you should ask your grandfather. If he100% wants you to give it to him, then do it....but if he tells you he's old already and is grateful for such an offer but he wants you to be healthy and complete, then dont. you have to understand you have a whole life ahead of you and he's already lived to 72....so consider that and factor it into your decision. for example, i would give mine to my mother if she was like 50 because that would prolong her live for another 25 years.
but your grandpa is 72, how long do you think he will live to?
Also get advice from you parents....
2006-06-26 07:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a truly personal decision. ask yourself these questions would your grandfather benefit, is he in good health does he still get around on his own. talk to his doctor and see if he can give you some answers to your questions. and my dear 72 is not really old these days
2006-06-26 07:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by 5150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋