I'm going to be spending time alone with my online girlfriend in real life, and this is my first time with a girl. I'm usually shy anyways but what can help me maintain it on the trip? I'd be nervous but not nervous enough to be loving on her, yet I just yearn what I can do to calm myself down or etc. Thank you.
2006-06-26 06:53:55 · 16 answers · asked by Elegy Of Dirge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
spank your monkey...then no more worries, your monkey aint gonna harm her no more, so no more need to be shy....
2006-06-26 06:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Moonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in a relationship the shyness will go away. You will find yourself being more comfortable around that certain individual. Now you may be nervous now, but once you see her it may be just like it was when the two of you were online.
2006-06-26 13:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should let ur girl know that u r nerve to start off, so that she wont expect u to do all the work. And then just play around with her like with games, or watch tv, just get to know things about her. Just because its ur 1st time with a girl doesnt mean u have to be nerves around her cause that is going to make her feel like u r not interested in her.
2006-06-26 13:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by imacutiey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first be yourself, take deep breaths or count to 10 sounds dorky well it has heped me. You two don't really know each other so take it like just another day with your friends dont put any pressure on yourself to act any different. this is where you find out if the sparks are strictly online or if they translate into up close and personal. good luck
2006-06-26 13:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by 5150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the most shy person in the world and I know how difficutl it is, and you are not alone, just have fun and dont worry much and laugh out loud then you wont be that shy.Good luck.
2006-06-26 13:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sophia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must trust ur self dont apear shy to her becouse she will hate u if u did
she dreamed to live with a guy protect her and feel her and u going to be shy from first time
my advise to u is to be normal just act as u do in real life and she will love u more and more
2006-06-26 14:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get nervous...It's call Panic Attack..I get it all the time...I try not to think 2 much about the actual event...it's best you keep yourself busy....or if you just can't get her out of your thoughts try to think about something you really would like to happen....reading helps too..
hope this help..you'll be fine though..
2006-06-26 13:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself that this girl obviously likes you because your you. Dont try to be all macho or say things just to impress her. Be yourself. Talk about what ever pops into your head. Confidence in a guy is very sexy to girls.
2006-06-26 13:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably be just as shy as you r . Just remember to have a good time no matter what.
2006-06-26 14:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know her for the most part. Why should it change now. Just build on what you already have.
2006-06-26 13:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by salembog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If she likes you online you'll be the same in person.
2006-06-26 13:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋