If you are in a relationship and you or your partner watches p o r n 3 or 4 times a day, everyday because one of you is not in the mood....would you be worried or not?
2006-06-26 06:50:48 · 27 answers · asked by Victoria R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be very worried. My ex husband watches ****. He did the whole time we were married. He ended up cheating on me pretty much the whole 20 years we were together. I believe that him watching so much **** had a lot to do with it. I am sure that his attitudes about sex, it being his right to cheat on 'his woman', etc also havd a lot to do with it as well.
I would personally be very concerned/worried if your partner is watching **** 3 or 4 times a day. They are, eventually, not going to be satisfied with just watching it on tv. They are going to go outside of the relationship to get what they are seeing.
I would suggest counseling for your partner. Also tell your partner how much it bothers you, worries you, etc. Watching **** is dangerous for a relationship UNLESS both parties are watching it together to learn tips or to get aroused, but only once in awhile, NOT all the time.
2006-06-26 07:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I'm in a relationship with someone and we have an active physical life there's no reason to watch **** 3-4 times/day. Do you discuss each others fantasies?
2006-06-26 06:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a bit concern. I can see if the both of you watched it together just to get tips or be more ******, but if he's watching by himself and 3 to 4 times a day than something is wrong. Way don't you try being more sexual active in the bedroom.
2006-06-26 06:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see 3 or 4 times a week but, 3 or 4 times a day? WOW.
2006-06-26 06:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by salembog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 or 4 times a day? Be worried!! Very Worried!!!
2006-06-26 06:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it is a long term relationship you grow bored after a while plus alot of times you do not want to deal with the whole sex thing some times it is just quicker and easier to masturbate.
If you just been seeing each other a couple of weeks or months then i might be worried.
2006-06-26 06:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To much can be harmful for a realtionship. I would say 3-4 tims a day is too much when in a relationship. Talk about problems that your having in the relationship with him. There are deeper issues here.
2006-06-26 06:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by sphere_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should be very worried. if he watches it once a day or every now and then it's ok but 3 or 4 times a day that guy is a pervert.
2006-06-26 06:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be worried. Most men watch ****, married or single.
Maybe you should consider being in the mood more often?
2006-06-26 06:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you want out of a relationship. He's not the kind of guy you marry - especially if he allows you to see him watching **** and doesn't care about your feelings
2006-06-26 06:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋