We pray together. We communicate on everything. We have "intimacy" often. We go out on dates without the kids once a month. We laugh. SHE'S HOTT. and works to keep herself that way. When we disagree, we talk through it. When we have problems, we work THROUGH them. We know it'll take the rest of our lives to figure each other out and love won't get us through the tough times, God and hard work will. Having kids won't solve problems it'll add difficulty to the ones we have and we're cool with that.
2006-06-26 08:03:20
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answered by Silly Me 2
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My marriage over the years is now GREAT.
We know each other like we have been together forever. He is the most kind person. He knows when I am happy or when i just need a hug. I love it when he looks at me and just can't help but smile I will ask him what he is smiling about he will wink at me and say because your mine. If he sees the kids are driving me nuts he loads them up for a trip to the park or ice cream or just a drive to give me a break. I never have to tell him to take out the trash or put his clothes in the hamper he just does it. The BEST is when I am taking a bath and he comes join me he gives me a massage washes my hair, and washes me holds me(i don't get that often but when i do it is worth the wait). We have been married a long time but feel like the marriage has just started.
It did take a while to get to this point but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
2006-06-26 14:08:28
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answered by shellshell 4
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My marriage sucked for the first 12 years. Now it is great. We went to the beach together while the kids were in school last week. Saturday we went out for dinner without the kids. We lay in bed watch TV holding hands. Hugs and kisses for no reason. We talk and laugh with each other all the time. I help her with the house work and we have fun doing it together. She blurts out I Love You for no reason at all. All of these things and more we now do together, before none of this happened, I am glad I stuck it out for 12 years, it was well worth it to have this wonderful marriage now. Thank you for your question, I love my relationship too.
2006-06-26 14:02:47
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answered by Andy S 3
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I have been married for thirty two years. My husband and I believe in the same things.When you believe the same things,you don't fight about things like money ,or how to raise the kids or where to live or life goals and dreams.He also respects my feelings enough to get input when there is a big decision to be made.He is also a wonderful and tender lover who makes me feel cherished.He is everything I ever wanted in a man and more.I can't think of anyone I would rather be with! I look forward to many more years together.
2006-06-26 14:01:51
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answered by Tyna S 2
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My husband and I have been married for 15 years - and we have 3 children, 12 y/o, 11y/o and 9 1/2! Our marriage has gone through its ups and downs, but because we believe in commitment and have the same moral beliefs, we've been great.
Kids wear and tear on a marriage - it is important to keep your spouse's needs met while keeping the children happy. AND youhave to remember to say what you want - there is no mindreading with marriage!
2006-06-26 14:56:10
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answered by Love2teach 4
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Me and my husband have been married for 2 months but have been together for 2 years. He's my best friend and now he's my husband for the rest of my life. I can tell him anything at anytime and we constantly thank each other for being in each other's life's. We tell each other all the time that we love each other and our love making is just awesome. I can't picture my life without him and I wouldn't want to. I love my marriage and I love my husband for showing me what love really is.
2006-06-26 14:07:45
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answered by babieshay27 3
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We have been married for a little over a year but have been together for 5 years and living together for 4 of those 5 years. He is my best friend. I have told him things that I will never tell anyone. Sometimes we fight like brother and sister but its ok because everyone fights sometimes...and if you don't you'll blow up with irritation. We laugh at the people who say I can't tell my wife that her cooking is bad or that that shirt is ugly or whatever...because they are your life mate your best friend...your suppose to be able to tell them everything. I mean if you don't like her cooking...she pry doesn't either and if you don't say anything shes going to keep cooking it or wearing that shirt or whatever. So we are incredibly honest with eachother sometimes brutally...but we're happy!
2006-06-26 15:02:20
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answered by Crystal 3
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I've been married 14years and it only get better. The sex is unbelievable and we make each other happy everyday. I think what make it so good is that I can tell her anything good, bad or ugly
2006-06-26 13:59:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope...it's a myth. Anyone here who says otherwise will eventually be getting a divorce.
2006-06-26 14:06:50
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answered by Anonymous
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