what is being a good husband?

Question

im in the ruts with my wife right now im not sure if im being a good husband and if there are ways to be an even beter one can i get some help here

Answer 1

Taking care and satisfying the needs of your wife. Not the wants but the needs. Also being loving, caring, and both of you setting yourself on an equal platform.

Answer 2

You shouldn't have to try to be a good husband, it should just come naturally to you. If she thinks that you have to TRY, it will only upset her. Start into it gradually. Start by helping more around the house. Help her when she cooks, help do the dishes or laundry. But also, make her feel good! Compliment her! My favorite thing that my hubby does for me is he leaves little notes around the house for me. He takes soap and writes me a little note on the mirror so it's there when I get up in the morning, or he will write it in the steam from his bath and so when I take mine, I see it. Or he will leave a note in my car or in my purse. Just anywhere, just something to say he loves me and misses me even if it's just for the day. Get her a little small bunch of daisies, they don't cost much, but they mean something, or go pick them yourself! It's the little stuff that matters! Not the big stuff! Don't go out and spend a lot of money on her, cuz chances are, you will get in trouble for spending the money. Do something from the heart. Like I said, it's the little stuff and don't do it just every once in a while, do it a couple times a week or once a week. Just to let her know you appreciate her and love her! Good luck!!

Answer 3

do something different, send her flowers or a note for no reason, surprise her with a weekend away from home, give her a nice massage, take over some of her house work, listen to her, really communicate, change up your routine, turn off the tv, play a game, take a walk, start a new hobby together...treat her as if you just met her and you are trying to get her to notice you...

Answer 4

If you are a religious person I would suggest looking at these scriptures. They will tell you everything you need to know. Ephesians 5:21-33

21 Be in subjection to one another in fear of Christ. 22 Let wives be in subjection to their husbands as to the Lord, 23 because a husband is head of his wife as the Christ also is head of the congregation, he being a savior of [this] body. 24 In fact, as the congregation is in subjection to the Christ, so let wives also be to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, continue loving YOUR wives, just as the Christ also loved the congregation and delivered up himself for it, 26 that he might sanctify it, cleansing it with the bath of water by means of the word, 27 that he might present the congregation to himself in its splendor, not having a spot or a wrinkle or any of such things, but that it should be holy and without blemish.

28 In this way husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, 29 for no man ever hated his own flesh; but he feeds and cherishes it, as the Christ also does the congregation, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave [his] father and [his] mother and he will stick to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This sacred secret is great. Now I am speaking with respect to Christ and the congregation. 33 Nevertheless, also, let each one of YOU individually so love his wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband.

Answer 5

kiss her randomly when she least expects in, like when doing dishes or just sitting on the coutch. Tell her that you forgot how beautiful she was, take her out on a date..a real date most people dont do that in years. Send her flowers just becuase it is wensday...stuff like that. Tell her you love her all the time for women are faragile. Oh...kiss her on the forhead and then hold her face and look into her eyes and say, i dont think i ever tell you how much i apprechiate you..but iam a truly blessed man to have u.

Answer 6

I think the mistake we as a couple make is making everything into a routine. Don't stop being her friend or boyfriend. Go out to dinner, surprise her during work for lunch, TALK or LISTEN! But most importantlly LAUGH! Go for a drive at night enjoy summer and make love to her as if it were your first time.
Get out of the routine its not healthy.
Good luck

Answer 7

Talk to your wife. Communication is everything. Tell her you love her. Ask her if there is anything she needs, or wants to do, or to talk about. Send her flowers.

Ask her if she wants to go do something. Take her shopping. Come up to her out of the blue and say, "your the best baby, i would do anything for you, I hope you know that."

Answer 8

I always tell people....Communication. Talk to each other, find out what the other likes, and do it for them. Grow together, not apart.

Start with something she wouldn't expect....flowers, a card.

Spend some time together, help around the house...etc.

Answer 9

try doing something nice for her without her having to ask you to do it ...like take her out to dinner and a movie give her some tlc thats a wife really needs is someone to love her, caress her, and the sole satisfaction of having her man just be there for her.

Answer 10

be attentive, ask her what she needs from you and then do your best to give it to her. treat her gently but lovingly the way you did when you first fell in love. above all make your self available to her , emotionally, sexually, and physically. you will notice that the more you give of yourself the more she will respond and give of herself. good luck