Me and my girlfriend 'kinda' had sex Yesterday without a condom. I didnt fully go in, and she is still physically a Virgin, Her cherry hasnt poped. When i went in, not that far, we think some pre-*** went inside her also >_<
This is so embarasing xD We were kinda in a Shower to? If that effects stuff!
and she say's she thinks it's her Period today, which she hasnt had =\ Maybe she's wrong this has happend before where she got the days wrong.
we've alway's used contriception before, execpt this insident.
were gonig to try and take the morning after pill tomrow. Theres problem with getting out of school, but im sure we can make it.
I hope you can tell me if this sitation is bad? and if she takes a morning after pill tomroow, will it be affective? Especially with her period supposedly being "today".
2006-06-26 06:41:53 · 26 answers · asked by 404 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't worry about it. I've been in similar situations before, and my girlfriend was three weeks late one time. They said it was probably b/c she was stressing about being pregnant. Anything is possible, but I would say that the odds are in your favor.
2006-06-26 06:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very seriously your girlfriend is pregnant. If this just happened yesterday she would have no way of knowing if she was pregnant. It is way too soon to take a test and if she was due to come on her period the egg is already dead and the chances of concieving then are nill also. A woman can only concieve certain days of the month, somewhere between13 -20 days after the first day of her last period. Go to www.babycenter.com and check what I am saying.
Do you and your girlfriend have strong relationship? Is there reason for her to feel insecure and want to "hold" on to you? This all sounds so suspect to me. Always use protection. And guess what, yoru girlfriend my still be "physically" intact with her virginity but she is no virgin. Chasity is not stopping at a point to stay physically intact but staying away from sex all together. Be safe and learn your facts about conception. If not from this incident but for future incidents so you dont' get taking for a ride down the road. If you remain gulliable that is exactly what will happen.
2006-06-26 06:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anjanette A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The morning-after pill is most effective if taken within 72 hours, but can be used within 5 days (I believe). Yes, she could be pregnant. Any time you have unprotected sex, even if it's only a little bit and you don't ejaculate, she can get pregnant. The shower will have no effect on that. If you can, talk your girlfriend into asking her mom to take her to the gynecologist so that she can be put on hormonal birth control, and don't ever skip the condom again.
2006-06-26 06:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have her take anything yet. It doesn't sound like the possibility of pregnancy is too great. You should wait to see if she wasn't just off on the days. If it turns out she is pregnant, she'll be the second pregnant virgin in history. You can deal with your options once you know for sure what the situation is. Do not let her take the morning after pill yet.
2006-06-26 06:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but if your penis has had any internal contact with her vagina then she is no longer a virgin...your cherry does not have to "pop" to be considered a non virgin...these days most girls don't bleed after having sex for the first time! Pre cu.m can make you pregnant as it contains sperm. The shower makes no difference too...morning after pill should be effective but costs alot! Wear a condom and you won't have to worry about these things!
2006-06-26 06:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, you can't get pregnant the day before your period. You should always use contraception because you can bet pregnant from just one little tiny sperm and pre-*** itself has thousands. She is probably okay if she was going to get her period this soon, but you should do whatever you can to ensure that she isn't pregnant. Being in the shower doesn't make a difference and neither does her being a virgin. Good luck! I hope this helps.
2006-06-26 06:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by marym1018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it man! First of all the odds of you getting pregnant without sticking it all the way in is far fetched, Plus yall were in the shower with tons of water in that region, Plus precum doesnt really contain any sperm-its just semen! There is the rare occassion where precum contains semen but its not likely. Relax. I wouldnt take the morning after pill either cuz that could hurt you pretty bad.
2006-06-26 06:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by ayannadaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always a possibility of her getting pregnant even if there is no penetration or ejaculation. Go see a doctor if having a baby is not an option. Post coital (morning after) pills may work up to 72 hours after the act of sexual intercourse
2006-06-26 07:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by wbh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Maybe she is pregnant maybe not. You never know when you're not using protection. Just think, if she did take the morning after pill and she was pregnant, what if instead of it terminating the pregnancy, it just caused major birth defects. You think you're not ready to have a kid, think of having one with birth defects.
2006-06-26 07:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Millie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she could be pregnant. Take the morning after pill. You can check for side effects of it online by doing a google search on it. I wish ya'll the best of luck.
2006-06-26 06:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by cyndi_035 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋