I would really like her to know how I feel and perhaps even approve. I also think it would be a turn on to have her watch me with another man.
2006-06-26 06:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think that you should tell her... if she truely loves you then she will understand. Plus it might also make things more exciting in the bedroom and if your enjoying yourself more I am sure that she would too. go for it! and good luck.
2006-06-26 06:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She deserves to know that you have been cheating on her. You are not only taking chances with her heart and emotions, you are putting her in a situation where she could get a disease. Even though she might leave you, think of how you would feel if the tables were turned. Atleast give her a choice.
2006-06-26 06:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by destiny6706 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really just a gay man but married a woman because you thought it was the socially acceptable thing to do. If you really want that life, then have the decency to tell her, divorce her, and then find yourself a boyfriend.
But if you truly do love this woman and want to spend your life with her (and NOBODY else, male or female), then bury your tendencies and NEVER tell her even on your death bed.
2006-06-26 06:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you tell her before you were married?
Marriages are supposed to be based on trust.
Do you think it would be o.k. for your wife to go outside of your marriage with other people? What kind of marriage is that?
Why didn't you just stay single.
What do you expect her to say?
I think it was incredibly selfish for you to expect her to be o.k. with your desired lifestyle.
Give her the option to decide if she wants to be involved in a marriage founded on false pretenses.
Tell her immediately and be prepared for the storm you will stir up by telling her.
2006-06-26 06:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysbombed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her because if she isn't into it, it is not fair to keep your feelings a secret. she is more than likely under the impression that you are in love with and only attracted to her. when information is withheld, it doesn't allow others to make informed decisions.
and if she's cool with it, it could be a lot of fun for you.
2006-06-26 06:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by spreejo456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you married her through thick and thin. She deserves to know everything. Marriage is kind of a trust based relationship. you don't marry someone you think is going to keep feelings from you. tell her. if she can't handle it, you can find someone who will.
2006-06-26 06:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by sarah k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the idea of having her see you with a man is sick. if you are haveing sexual relations with men you should certainly tell her. infedelity is grounds for devorce apart from the risk of aids or other std's give her the chance to see the real you ??
2006-06-26 06:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you need to tell her the truth...however...you have a 50/50 chance she won't be accepting of this. You must be prepared for any outcome...but you still need to tell her. I wish you luck.
2006-06-26 06:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her LONG before you were married. She has a right to know. She also has a right to leave you when she finds out.
2006-06-26 06:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have ever married your wife. I feel sorry for her, she is living in a false marriage.
2006-06-26 06:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋