he is 18 non u.s. citizen & a high school dropout, she's only 15
2006-06-26 06:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by ALMA T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Hun
you must be going through hell at the moment my heart really goes out to you i am so sorry to hear this
in the world we live its hard not to think of our kids as our baby's but they seem to be adults by 12years old
if you tell her she is not going she will run
if you let her go sooner or later she will be back i no it is hard to think right about now but i do belive she will run back to you she will see there is no love like a mothers love
i no it may not seem like that would happen right now
but i have had 6 children and the 3 big ones i have had some big dramas with but they come back because they no were the love is
i can not tell you to let her go i can not tell you to make her stay with you
but i will say the more you say you must stay the more she will want to go
please E mail me if you need a chat
you are in my thoughts
good luck with everything
respect
shaz
2006-06-26 06:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by sharon B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her not to keep the baby. There are many loving homes that will love and take care of this baby. Make her realize that this is a huge responsibility to raise a child. She is only 15 for god sakes. And what about you as a parent? Haven't you done anything to keep this relationship from happening? I would report this guy. 18 and a 15 year old sleeping around? I'm sure later on she will thank you for this.
2006-06-26 13:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by JMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really at 15 legally she can't move out...if you really don't want her too then take the measures that you need to...let her know until she is 17 she doesn't have a choice but live with you and that's final. If that doesn't work then let her learn from her own mistakes...she has to live and learn on her own!
2006-06-26 13:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother did this hes 17 he got his girl friend pregnant and he moved in with her........
now they have a beutiful baby girl and it isnt a mistack cuz u want the baby to have both parents and they should move intogether to make them self better parents learn disaplin and other parenting tips by them self if u have a problem you and ur doughter and the boyfriend should sit down and talk about it how you feel and the best thing they should do dont get all mad at then be calm...but remember think what should be right
2006-06-26 13:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how she knows his going to take care of her and the babie. what about the guy parents is they goin to be ok with that and if they are is goin to be for now at least and those he has a job to take care of them just tell her off and she only fifteen u could get through her and its illegal
2006-06-26 13:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by celine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's about to ruin 4 lives here...yours, hers, his and the future baby. What other options does she have? Is it a late term preg?
2006-06-26 13:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. You were obviously ok with the age difference while they were making the baby, let her move in there, she'll come back, TRUST ME.
2006-06-26 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Maggz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her the book s:The Rules or He's just not that into you good books
2006-06-26 13:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by New k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are kinda too late to tell her that its a mistake.
2006-06-26 13:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by 360 degree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, there to young to be moving in together.
2006-06-26 13:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by #1-Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋