the man i am in love with makes a lot less money than the one i live with. if we separate i will lose everything,(car, house) what should i do follow my heart or my bank account?
2006-06-26 06:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by mydogisgay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, it depends on if you want to have money or not. If you're poor, then you will start to resent the guy and end up hating him. Good luck.
2006-06-26 06:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, lets talk about why did you start a relationship with someone else in the first place.I'm just going to be real with you! You have three peoples lives tangled up in your "Mess" grow up and be a woman learn how to stand on your on two feet and stop depending on a man to take care of you. As long as you stay bonded to that way of living you will always be unhappy in the relationship area. Stop cutting your self short and step out on faith there is nothing wrong with being in a loving relationship and stop looking at the size of his pocket and do something about your own pocket. If the person at home isn't doing it for you stop living that lie.
2006-06-26 09:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by tammy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am truly surprised at you have you not had the proper upbringing Money will never buy you true happiness it is never the right thing to choose financial well being over true Love Let Love be your guide whether or not the other has money is irrelevant true love always makes its way.
2006-06-26 06:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that's is so tough.... I recently had to go thru the same thing. If you follow your heart, everyone says love is stronger than anything but it doesn't pay the bills. Are you happy with who your living with, are you two even in a close relationship like that? I ended up just being solo....You can always replace materialistic things but you can never replace the one you love............
2006-06-26 06:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would usually be the first to say love but these days I am a bit cynical about that since sometimes you choose love and you're mad. Money (security) on the other hand is tangible and is a sure thing.
2006-06-26 06:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by EIliot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where you are and see the other guy on the side until he gets a job making more money.
Unless you are totally unhappy where you are. Then leave. You don't need a car and house to make you happy. Self respect is a start.
2006-06-26 06:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love.
2006-06-26 06:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should choose love. Becouse you could always make money but you might never find another true love.
2006-06-26 06:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by your bestfreind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your priorities and if you're willing to live poor or not....what matters most to you? Love or money.....
2006-06-26 06:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by smilynoony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart!
2006-06-26 06:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋