i'm a 20 year old japanese boy my problem is i have a lesbian sister i can't stop her but she turns me on by making noises in her room with her girlfriend what am i supposed to do i can't be turned on by my sister and the secound thing is i have a girlfriend and we started having problems in our relationship because of this i'm trying to raise money so me and her move out of my parents house but i have to wait about 4 months i can't untill then my relationship with my girlfriend will end i know that what am i supposed to do?
2006-06-26 06:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Buy ear phones? Go see a psychologist? hum, sorry dude, i dunno, but good luck anyway...
2006-06-26 06:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Purple.Space.Cadette 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is there anyway you can talk to your sister about this situation. You're probably not 'turned on' by your sister but turned on by the noises. Ask her to let you know when she will have company. Maybe you can make an arrangement that when one of you has company the other stays out late. Talk to her. Your relationship with your g/f will get hurt if you keep this a secret.. Good luck
2006-07-01 21:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing which says you cannot be turned on by sounds. The problem is that you think you can't hear your own sister having sex. This is fine. Use the sounds to imagine your own threesome with two movie acresses, or the two good looking members of the Dixie Chicks.
As long as you don't try to INDULGE your sister and her friend, you'll be fine. Imagination is a powerful thing.
2006-06-26 06:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with reme 1. you probably aren't turned on by your sister, just the thought of sex. Tell her to quiet down or have sex somewhere else. headphones are good too. if you have a tv in your room, pop in some porn so your attention is off your sister having sex and on some hot stranger instead. just a suggestion.
2006-07-02 14:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Geckolion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should maybe use the sounds as a motivation to get more active with your girlfriend and also maybe suggest your sister to keep it down a little.
2006-06-26 07:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell you sister to be a lil more quiet, that everyone can hear them.
then she will refrain from the noises.
2006-06-26 08:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by vidalliendo21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋