i know he doesnt respect me i know he doesnt spend any time for me even he rarely answer to my mails i have many reasons that show he is not so nice to me but yet i love him so much that i cant even get angry with him why he is so dear to me ??what s the matter with me ? i have many people around me who love me and wish to spend their time with me but i dont want , i just want to be with him
2006-06-26 05:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by Mary (dokhtar aryaei) 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have every thing in my life i dont need any thing there are many people around me who gave me enough love and there are many people who wish to be with me but i just wish to be with him
2006-06-26 06:06:03 · update #1
i wish i was able to lie him just like the same he did with me i wish i was able to cheat him just like the same he did with me i wish i was disrespect him just like what he did with me but i m not able to do that ohh he is so dear to me !
2006-06-26 06:13:47 · update #2
He has disrespected you for so long, that you don't think that you deserve anything better. There are two things that you can do. First, you can stay there and let him control and abuse you without complaining. Second, you can realize that you are a person of your own and you do deserve more. Love doesn't come with a cost and it is costing you everything. Self love, respect, confidence. If you can't figure out what to do then go get counseling for abused women because that is what you are. Verbally and emotionally abused.
2006-06-26 06:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by brittme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people define themselves in terms of their mate and who they choose as a partner. When they do this they consider it failure to consider any other alternative than being with that one no matter how abusive or cold that person is. There is always that good faith in that person because I'm good and I know they are too. Love is one thing and infatuation is another. Love means sacrifice in many ways and he sounds more like a user and abuser than someone that has your interest and love at heart.
Find confidence in yourself and realize that you have much to give to someone that will and can love you. As hard as it is you are not in a love relationship you are in an abusive situation .. emotionally .. and will only feel better about it and yourself when you are able to look beyond your relationship with this guy.
2006-06-26 13:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This my dear is a psychological issue, the worse someone treats you the more you feel for them, go to a therapist and try to figure out whet is lacking in your life that makes you think like that.
2006-06-26 13:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be a pattern in your life. Maybe you don't feel like you deserve to be treated with respect for some reason. Maybe he has some kind of personality disorder and you have alot of empathy.
2006-06-26 13:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!I've been there done that. i have friends who are suffering from the same thing..what we need is a situation that would really push us to the limits and think of leaving that person. we need to boost our moral and self esteem so we can have enough courage to leave them. be strong..
2006-06-26 13:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None is the biggest fool lest she sleep with the one person who knows it too.
2006-06-26 13:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by eventjulie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS BLIND that's why you cant get mad but TRUST me put your needs first and the rest you'll figure it out later;)
2006-06-26 13:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont get angry coz u love him more them ur life
so love him
the more u love him the more he'll love u
2006-06-26 13:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by newoldnew9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being a doormat, stop it, get rid of him and move on.
2006-06-26 13:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by freyas_kin28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you will be his DOORMAT for the rest of your life. Enjoy !
2006-06-26 13:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋