she says she wants to wait till shes married. but i cant wait that long. what shall i do?
2006-06-26 05:53:18 · 19 answers · asked by J/k 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
start masterbating.
2006-06-26 05:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Susan L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex because she's scared or wants to keep on the Christian path and not have sex till marriage. It may be hard but if you wait till your married then it will be even more enjoyable than having sex out of the blue.
2006-06-26 05:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by SuperNat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not willing to wait and marry her, then move on. Don't pressure her into it or she'll resent you for the rest of your lives. Technically you can wait, but you don't want to.
Ask yourself this: are you ready to accept ALL the consequences that having sex can bring? Even with protection, are you prepared for the possibility that a condom breaks or the birth control of choice doesn't work? This doesn't just include a possible fetus you have to choose whether or not will come to full term, but also STDs like hepatitis. If you aren't willing to accept that these things are possible, then you are not ready to have sex.
2006-06-26 06:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by darthbouncy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love, care and respect her then you will respect her decision. If you want to wait til you guys get married (if it's that serious) then wait for her or if not then just move on. If you choose to move on you might be missing out on one special person. So is it that important to have sex now and loose this special lady? (Think about) Follow your heart and you will make the right decision. Good Luck
2006-06-26 06:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is sex that important to you that it would come between you and your girlfriend? I would respect her decision, find other, better avenues for you to channel your energy into to resist those tempations if you want to stay dating her. Otherwise, if she's not worth the wait, move on. There's plenty of girls out there that are willing to give you what you want, but it's a shame that you don't care for this girl enough to think about her wishes instead of your human desires. You don't deserve her. Let her find a jewel that will treasure her as the pure, spotless woman she is.
2006-06-26 06:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is worth waiting on, then wait for her. But if she is ALREADY using sex as a weapon, or something to hold over your head, before you have even had sex w/ you.....I would SERIOUSLY reconsider marrying her! If she is making you jump thru hoops NOW, what is gonna be like after you are "locked into the deal?" I would have to say that there are lots o' fish in the sea......GO FISHIN' MAN!
2006-06-26 06:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl who doesnt want to wait but i wouldn't if i were you virgins are like santa clause and the easter dont exist and only heard of once a year if you havent shared your virginity then save it for with another virgin esp if you really care about her besides there are other things you two can do until then, oral sex and mutual masterbation are just two examples
2006-06-26 06:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN'T wait??
You don't want to wait. You want kids? You want responsibility? You want to be a man?
You are a kid. Go outside and play in the street. Maybe you will get in a fight and someone will knock some sense into your thick head.
2006-06-26 11:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
that is a wonderful thing that she wants to wait. if you want to keep her, then dont push her, because if she's adiman about not having sex and you wont give up then she might give up on you.
help yourself for now, you'll get sex when it's time and it'll be all the more special
2006-06-26 06:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? im 14 and have had sex and loved it so i dont understand why she wouldnt want to. well just wait for her or move on because there are alot of women out there.
have a happy sex life!
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2006-06-26 05:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by omg.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then you should respect her desicion and wait untill she is ready to do it.if you cant accept that dont keep the relationship going your only going to hurt her.but if she means as much as you said she does u shouldn't really have to ask that question.good luck
2006-06-26 14:50:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋