Since he loves other women more than me, I am willing to set him free to let him do what he loves to do... be with other women instead of the wife and his flesh and blood kids. One of his women even has a son and he has been financially supporting them as well even though he kept complaining he doesnt have enough money to support me and my kids!! I just dont get it!!
2006-06-26 05:50:38 · 21 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are never satisfied with what they have but they aren't willing to let it go for whatever they think they want.....on the side. I can relate to your life because my husband has been doing these same things and he refuses to get a divorce. He complains about every little thing I do or don't do but yet he can't seem to get rid of me with a divorce. Yes....they're selfish, self centered, and they are liars too!!! The sad truth is this..... your husband loves you very much and he wouldn't trade you for someone else for a million bucks. You are his heart and his world. Without you he would not know how to live and breath. These other women are what he does when he's bored or feels old or he's mad at you. That's how all men are and you are not alone in this world. You and I are just a little smarter than most women who never catch on to what their husbands do. Don't let him get you down. It's his problem so don't blame yourself or listen when he does. If you divorce and meet someone else....eventually he will be the same way!!! Hang in there. You can live life just fine like it is. He will become old and impotent one day and you will still be there, spending his pension!!! Just make sure you go by and see him in the convalescent home you have him in on your way to the mall every now and then! ha- ha! He'll be so sorry one day.
2006-06-26 07:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by TGal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lady you are very good cheating a child and not supporting your family at the house. This has divorce all over it. He don't want a divorce because he is going to have to support you and the kids.Don't keep being a door mat and let that man walk all over you,that is crazy, you can do bad by your self. And get some help with taking care of the kids. Been There Done That!
2006-06-26 13:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by tammy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you took him back the first time and then he did it again and so did you. He is in a perfect situation because he is able and allowed in some form or another to do it. You are staying around letting him walk all over you and he knows that he can. Get up and out, don't let him! Call an attorney and file for a divorce. Either he will know that you mean business and want to stay around or he will grant you a divorce. If he stays in the marriage then get into counseling ASAP. Family and marriage. Whatever you do, don't try to go at this problem without an attorney. They will be able to help you figure the best way out for you and the kids.
2006-06-26 13:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's got the best of both worlds. He's got a wife on his arm that looks good "society-wise." And he's got mistresses that keep him happy in bed. This man needs a big time wake up call - give it to him, hand him the divorce and move on - until you do, he'll continue to think your weak and will walk all over you. You've basically enabled him to do this for the last 18 years. Take a stand, get strong, and get out!
2006-06-26 13:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What don't you get about a cheating creep?
I say change the locks on the doors and file for a divorce asap.
If you can't afford it. look for a womans support group that can help you.
Why would you want your children exposed to a cheating father. They will learn two things...#1 that it is ok to be taken advantaged by someone who cares for them #2 It is ok for a man to cheat on his wife. Do you want your children to learn this? What has happened in your life that makes you think it is ok to stay in this sort of nightmare. Move on. You are stronger than you can ever imagine.
2006-07-06 02:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is why would you stay with a man that is cheating on you had a child outside your marriage.. you want a divorce file for it there is nothing he can do to stop it. He doesn't want the divorce because he doesn't want to have to pay you child support if he loved you he wouldn't be cheating move on now find someone that will love you and your kids
2006-06-26 12:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and file for a divorce. It's obvious that he has no respect for you so get rid of him. He will continue his charades for as long as you let him. Tell him to get out and change the locks. And remember he is spending your money when he supports someone else. You are entitled to half of that money back.
2006-06-26 12:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save you both a lot of time and heart ache and just cut his dick and balls off.
ONLY CHILDREN do such CHILDISH things as CHEAT on a wife/husband.
If he can't grow up serve him with divorce papers, you do not need him to file. File throw his *** back out there. He can't learn to be faithful and keep it in his pants and by staying with him you are telling him that it's ok to do that.
2006-06-26 12:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to do it. My husband and I were married for 12 years and he kept cheating. I couldnt take it anymore so I filed and divorced him even though i still love him desperately I just couldnt let him hurt me anymore, or my kids
2006-06-26 12:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kaufi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying, "It's cheaper to keep her"?
he knows a divorce will ruin him financially, and he won't have enough money to take the mistresses out for a good time. It financial...only.
Leave.
2006-06-26 12:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋