My husband recently ran off with another woman leaving me to look after 5 kids and generally I'm coping fine except for the lack of sex.
I'm so horny all the time, I haven't had sex in 3 months and we used to do it pretty much every day before he left. With 5 kids (aged 3-11) I don't have time to go out and meet other guys or go on dates. I'm masturbating at least twice every day but I still feel really horny all the time. What can I do to get it out of my system without actually having sex? Masturbating isn't really doing it for me.
2006-06-26 05:50:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren A 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Maybe you need to find a better balance, some sort of hobby maybe, or spending more time with your kids, to take your mind off the wanting sex? It could be a lack of company / closeness that youre suffering, but your body's making it feel like the physical side of sex thats missing. If youre still horny after trying the above, reckon a trip to Ann Summers for a toy could be in order, but I think this wont be necessary, Im sure youre just lonely. Good luck
2006-06-26 06:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
i might be the lonleyness in you... not the horney ness the fact that your husband left you and your now alone and have no other body there to have sex with you might just appear as horney ness... for now... try to spend some more time with your kids and less on the masturbating.. mabye taking the kids out some place new will help you find a nice guy with the same problem?;)
2006-06-26 05:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by roaminggnome6963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too risky to go on line or to go to some sort of place to meet men and sleep with them no strings attach. I know there is protection but as we all know it's not always 100% cause condoms can break. Also you don't know what physco you might meet that may seem normal. You have your children to think of. Use toys and stuff and if it doesn't work then go to your doctor and talk about whats going on. Maybe he/she can help you out.
2006-06-26 06:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without actually having sex there is nothing left but masturbation.Get you some good toys and work it out with them until you're ready for the real thing
2006-06-26 08:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tae Kwon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of online dating sites and other ways like running perosnal ads, some of the sites are adultfriendfinder.com im sure there youll find links to other ones, good luck oh and your husbands a dumbass dont know why he would leave except because all those kids it makes me wonder why somebody would have so many
2006-06-26 05:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure seems like it would... What about getting toys or trying different techniques? Or maybe you just need to do it more than twice a day because you have unique needs?
2006-06-26 05:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly. you are a case needing specialist medical help. For goodness sake ignore all these answers telling you how to meet casual partners and see a doctor instead.
2006-06-26 07:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was crazy first off
there are a lot of sites to meet singles or couples for sex ,friendships or more
do not sit around waiting for him to come home to satisfy you
adultfriendfinder has a lot of local singles etc..
2006-06-26 05:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by underworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a really trying period but with the right focus, you could get over it. Sex is not just about having a penis in you, but about sharing intimate times. You actually need Christ and to concerntrate on raising your children and the right man will come along with a high libido- who knows?
2006-06-26 23:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by naanyjo 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
get rid of the photograph you have of me
it may help
could do the opposite and stop you wanting sex forever if you cant think of me when you do not have the photo to see
2006-06-26 07:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋