I have been dating this guy for 3 months and I always visit. He is always busy. I am thinking if it is worth persuing.
2006-06-26 05:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by monalisa 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Is he always busy when you visit, or just in general? Sometimes distance has nothing to do with wether a relationship will last or not. If he trully cares about you then he'll make time for you, he'll look forward to being with you. Relationships take effort, from both sides. If he's not giving that effort than maybe you should take a step back and ask yourself if you should hold out for something better. Distance makes things harder but it is possible for a long distance relationship to work. Take some time and evaluate what you really want in a relationship, and determine if you're getting that. Then deside what to do.
Good luck, you deserve the best!
2006-06-26 05:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by starsmoak 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Long distance relationships N E V E R work. When you are in a long distance relationship, you always feel alone. When you are alone, you look for company to pass the time. When you find company and enjoy it so much, you forget about the person at the other end of the long distance relationship, and pretty soon you are always busy when the other person visits because you do not know how to tell her (or him) that you do not like her (or him) any more.
2006-06-26 12:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by SAfrican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on you guys and the chemistry you have. I had a long distance relationship with my girlfriend from right after high school and it lastes for 2 years just great. When we were together we were inseperable and it was really great, when we were apart we could focus on our studies, we eventually separated though, but distance wasn't a factor. Now I'm married to a woman I met at University but who is Swiss who I had a very long distance relationship with for about a year and a half before she finally came to the states and we got married, now we live in Switzerland. You never know how things will turn out. Listen to your heart
2006-06-26 12:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, no. I had a long distance relationship for 4 years before I married. It is easy to get along with each other when you rarely see one another and cherish every moment spent together. After we married, and there was no distance between us, I had a real shock. He did not like my lifestyle, and I did not care for his either. It was not one of those horrid abuse stories. We just had no relationship, once we had a real relationship. We based our marriage on a fantasy romance.
At least we parted friends.
2006-06-26 13:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship can work, but you both have to be willing to do things for the relationship. You should suggest that you take turns visiting one another. You both need to make sacrifices for the relationship to work, not just one of you.
2006-06-26 12:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is, you should give it a shot. If you care about him it can work. My husband is a Marine so we are apart sometimes for long periods of time, which makes our time together even more special. I think you should give it a go, and if it doesn't then you've learned something. But I hope it does work and I truely wish you both the best!!!
2006-06-26 12:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom grew up in Milwaukee and my dad in Boston. They met when he was in the navy and they were like 18-19. They married within a year and recently celebrated their 41st anniversary. I'd say, yeah.
2006-06-27 00:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance realtionship and it works because we both put time into we are in two different continents.
2006-06-26 13:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by coolhandjoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they do not. Sounds to me like your man is seeing someone already and has you on the side. Or, he is too lazy to meet you. Either way, you should dump him.
Never make it too easy on a man (I'm a man, so I know this). If he can't visit you, get one who will.
2006-06-26 12:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they just run there course then you get tired
of being alone.
2006-06-26 12:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by reneyhun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋