Ok so this friend, we'll call her Sally, is driving me crazy. We were inseparable from 7th grade til college where I moved to the east coast and she stayed in California. But whenever I try to visit San Diego I never get to stay at her place because her parents are jerks. I'm goin out there with a friend at the end of July and at first she said we could stay there, but then her parents changed their minds. When she told me I got really mad because my parents have done so much for her, take her to laz vegas, palm springs, let her visit whenever, but she can't even give me a place to stay when i haven't seen her in 2 years? Well I got mad at her, said somethings I shouldn't have and hurt her feelings. But instead of talking about it she ignores my apologies and attempts to talk to her. I'm 3000 miles away and going out there in a month. What should I do? what else can i do besides say i'm sorry?
2006-06-26 05:18:13 · 4 answers · asked by AngL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay at a hotel with the friend who is going with you and have a good time. If your other friend wants to see you them let her make the effort to find out where you're staying and come to see you. You've offered apology and honestly I think you had a right to be upset and say some things. Has anyone there apologized to you for upsetting your trip by withdrawing their invitation to stay ?
2006-06-26 05:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do nothing. You have apologized. Whether or not the person the apology was offered to accepts is entirely up to them.
I find it interesting that you say this person is a friend. If so why have you for so long allowed this person to treat you the way she has? Her actions are not very friend friendly and you would be better off trying to figure out why you allow this person to treat you in this manner and continue to think of her as a friend. Sometimes you have to cut your losses. People grow change and sometimes move on. Find yourself a better level of friendship which also gives rather than just takes from you.
2006-06-26 12:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by andrew v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have been so mean to her, u know its not her fault if u cant stay at her house and u know urself that her parents are jerks not her, call her or send emails saying u r sorry and when u get there, buy her a sorry card and something nice.
2006-06-26 13:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go
2006-06-26 12:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋