Do you feel guilty after having an affair or a one night stand? IF the answer is yes, what do you do to ease the guilt?
2006-06-26 05:17:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not have them.
2006-06-26 05:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wasn't very clear about this issue until about 2 years ago. I realized there was something missing in my own marriage.. Intimacy and someone who wanted to keep their sexual self alive and interesting. Now, I don't promote seeking married men, but I do understand how it can happen. It takes a great deal of work to keep the physical side of a relationship interesting and engaging. So, I have had an affair and I wasn't too guilty because I felt - hey if the man had been honest about what was missing in his marriage he wouldn't be looking and if the wife wasn't making sure that her man had what he needed well.. then what's a girl to do..?? I know this is a lot of rationalizing, but who needs guilt anyway. What is done is done.. so now, move on.. and learn from my circumstances..
2006-06-26 05:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by playitbyearinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really, Because men look at sex different than men do. we see it like an act. Like shaking someones hand. It dose not mean anything to us. Its different with a person you love, but if you are cheating it dose not mean anything at all.
The human race was put here for one thing, and that's to reproduce,
Its dose not matter is you are rich, poor, white, black. The end result is to mate, and have those mate.
Men are wired different than women, I saw a study on 60 min. and it had a guy ask a lady to have sex with them, they ask that question in the first few min of the conversation, 100% of the Ladies declined. When they changed they had a lady ask the same question 60% on the men said yes.
women hold the control of sex. Animals, the males wait for the female to go into heat, then they fight other males off, show off. Same for humans the lady has to say yes. Men are pigs we will, and we will anywhere. Now that is an honest answer
2006-06-26 05:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all those married men who cheat their wives should just imagine what the will feel if the see their wives in someone Else's bed then I hope this will be discouragement enough for them not to be unfaithful to their wives.
Marriage is a union that separates us from behaving like animals.One night stands are the incidents that separate the men from the boys.Real men are not those who are out there to prove their prowess in bed but those who abstain from it.It takes a Man to say no, not a wimp who drops his pants at the sight of a pussy.
All those Men who cheat their women are under the false notion that it is their right to go and dip their sausages in other sauces, they convince themselves that their wives are no good in bed and this gives them the right to seek pleasure elsewhere. Try and control your self and come home to your wive and see the difference you will love her twice than you did before.
As for the guilt part of it, well if it is just the weakness of mind at that particular moment and you loose your self than there is definitely a guilt that eats you whenever you face your wife. as for those who plan and go out for it ,well there is no cure for the sick mind
2006-06-27 02:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by SPEEDO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married for 24 years to one woman, the love of my life, the Mother of our 2 healthy, intelligent, well-balanced children, and they are all the rocks I cling to in the storm.
MY wife is the most intelligent, kind, loving (and if you will permit me) the most beautiful woman I ever saw anywhere in all my travels around the planet with her (I am from Ireland, she is from Naples, Italy, she is tall, with long blond curly hair, chocolate brown eyes, a smile like heaven, and an incredibly sexy voice, she plays the piano like Rachmaninov, sings like an angel, cooks like a Cordon Bleu chef.)
Now, why would I want to jeapordise my life with her in any way?
But, if you have been cheated on, then I am sorry for you. Time for you to think hard and learn to go forward or to press stop. Good luck to you dear.
2006-06-26 05:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Superdog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no! No guilt whatsoever! Having another affair usually satisfies the two negatives equal a positive rule!
2006-06-26 05:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are to blame if a man is getting his fill from another woman. but sometimes I did most of the time no I did not. and to ease the guilt i gave my X pleasure without her having to do a thing to me. wink wink if ya know what I mean. i told her just tell me what you want done and when to stop!!!!!!!!
2006-06-26 05:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by thelistcard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is a blessing and a vow with God, not just the other person. Why would you jeapordise your happiness and bond with someone including God for a peice of @$$???? I never had one when I was married....and for the record, she left me for an affair!
2006-06-26 05:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell did the statistic of 97% come from?? 84% of all statistics are pulled from the statistic-quoters *** for the sake of arguement. Not all men are jerks- SOME MEN love THEIR wives.. sorry to see so many bitter women- choose better next time, I guess.
2006-06-26 05:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't have one, that way you don't feel guilty. I have and there is no way to actually make it up to the other person without the guilt.
2006-06-26 05:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just don't feel guilty after having affairs.
if i feel guilty i have more one night stands to over
come that.
2006-06-26 05:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by mrbramachare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋