All they do is whine and cry and poop and pee and they show no lovw to you, but we are supposed to idolize them and worship them in this life like Buddha or Christ reincarnate. They slap you with toys and scream in your ear when you say no! Any woman who admits that their baby gets on their last freakin dendrite is labeled a "bad" person, and oh, she shou;d go to hell in a gasoline soaked handbasket. Well, what love do they show? They are self-serving little twits who live for their own pleasure and can give a DAMN about you. You are fooling yourself to think they love you. The mother bird has the right idea. She puts them bitches out soon as they get tailfeathers. I wish humans were the same way.
2006-06-26 05:14:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You are pathetic. Mold them? people are born with their own soul, and free will. Yes we all begin as babies, but they are still hedonistic little pricks who are self centered and unappreciative of anything a parent does to care for them. What love do they show? Oh, the wails when you change their poopy diaper and bathe them to freshen them up are the love displays? Ok, my bad. In that case, I am so, so very loved by my baby. Whatever.
2006-06-26 05:22:22 · update #1
REPORT ME BIATCH!!! WRITE IT DOWN TAKE A PICTURE< I DON"T GIVE A ***.!!!!
2006-06-26 05:23:30 · update #2
Lilsexytwit> YES< YOUR SPAWN IS A TWIT TOO. THEY ALL ARE> YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL.
2006-06-26 05:49:02 · update #3
Ghetto mo> Back to the ghetto you need to gizzo, and learn how to spizzel some motha ****** wizzords. Word up, G.
2006-06-26 06:57:03 · update #4
No-one on Yahoo can help your situation. You are likely to be reported for ranting and may have your account shut down. You need to discuss your problems rationally with your husband and GET PROFESSIONAL HELP as a matter of urgency. You may have postnatal depression and unless you get help fast you will never be able to enjoy life. Your husband should support you with more than just the baby, you need support as well. Stop bothering people on this board and see a psychiatrist, counsellor or pastor. You will regret not doing so if you leave it muc longer. The time will come when you appreciate your daughter, but for now, resolve your problems.
2006-06-26 05:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well, hmmm. First, it is probably good that you are honest about how you feel about babies. You are clearly reaching out for help, even if it is coming out full throttle "angry", smile. At least you are honest.
Now that I've read some of your other postings, I'm erasing the orginal answer I wrote (which was very pie in the sky) and I'm saying this:
First, find a friend or relative to help keep you calm. Ask them to help you get some help. Check with your local hospital for help. They sometimes have "baby safe haven" programs where someone will take the baby until you can get it together. They are in several states. It might only be for newborns, but call anyway. they may have some other help for you.
Second, there are parenting programs in most cities. Check through the department of health and try to find one. It might help you to cope, and better understand the baby, especially if you can talk with other mothers.
Third, you may be have post-partum depression. I only had it for one day when I had my child, and I knew it, but it went away. Clearly, you are struggling a lot. The Xanax is probably a good idea.
Fourth, do you have someone you can stay with who can help you with the baby? Someone positive, not someone who is going to put you down or be negative. You sound very overwhelmed. I'm concerned that you might be a danger to yourself and the baby.
Fifth, maybe you just aren't ready to be a mother. You sound young. It would be very, very mature of you to admit it. You could consider putting the baby up for adoption, but only if everything else you try doesn't make you feel like you can love your baby.
Good luck, dear. I'll say a prayer for a better day for you.
2006-06-26 06:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sondra B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Girl U need help badly"! How could u have the heart to ask that question anyways. A baby is a gift from God. There's so many people wishing that they could have kids and here you go asking a stupid question like that. You don't need to have no kind of kids and any around u. If I knew u and knew where you stay I would turn u in to the social services because u don't need any kids around you, they would be in serious danger. What was so special about u. I bet nothing because ur asking some very stupid question. If there wasn't nothing special about u that don't mean Ur child isn't special. That same child came grow up a become something of there self. He came be a doctor or lawyer or even a singer u don't know what that child can grow up to be. I bet when that child do grow up an become something u probably be the first one up in his/her face bagging for some money.
2006-06-26 05:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Fruittie Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see that you are ever so slightly defensive...
how old is your child? The point is to nuture the relationship until the child can express his love for you, but even as an infant, when 'mommy' picks him up and he quits crying, or 'mommy' gives him to someone else to hold and he starts crying...this is the infant communicating feelings of safety to his mommy. He is safe with her....doesn't it make you feel wonderful that someone feels safe with you?
But as someone said above, if you had a child so that you would have someone to love you, you had a child for the wrong reason. the love of a parent is self sacrificing unconditional love...if you're still interested in getting what you want before your child gets what it needs, then you're not going to be happy. you have to want this relationship and realize that for quite some time it is one of the child taking and you giving. it should eventually turn around, but only if YOU make the relationship strong. A child doesn't know how to make a relationship strong, you have to do that. Think that someday this child could be changing your diapers. Love between child and parents is not an instant gratification sort of thing...its something that is realized over a lifetime.
2006-06-26 05:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by ladylawyer26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People vest so much in their offspring because they are the future. Not only will they carry our genes forward, but they also take our culture with them. If we put them out too soon, they will not learn this valuable culture of being human. They will continue to think screaming, and self-centeredness are okay, and we should slap each other with toys to get our way.
And as for mothers who say their child is getting on their last nerve: I am guilty as charged. I never believed motherhood would be easy. Some days I wonder what am I doing wrong. But then I get this big hug and a slobbery kiss, and a beautiful "I love you, mama." It is worth it.
2006-06-26 05:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies are very special for your information. First of all if you didn't want children then you should have not had them. I have a baby which is 10 1/2 months. Yes she cries, poops and throws things at me when I say NO but not because of that I am going to talk about her the way you talk about yours. I love my baby to death. I will defend her against anything and anybody. She is my life and I am only 18 and I don't regret never having my baby girl. My baby is the best gift GOD ever gave me and I am very happy.
2006-06-26 05:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Yadira M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can someone please kill me? Please? Death would be great, suicide is not an option, I'm a Christian.
^ That look familar? May want to lay off the cursing. And no, not every woman who "admits her baby gets on her last freakin dendrite"gets labeled a bad person. Only those who go on about dropping their kids off at a fire dept. and telling complete strangers how much they hate their child get that label. She appear out of thin air? You brought her into this world, grow up and take care of her the way she deserves. If you're honestly this crazy though, she may be better off if you give her to someone else. Maybe she slaps you with toys for a reason, you seem to deserve it.
2006-06-26 05:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by ★Fetal☆ ★And ☆ ★Weeping☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I was nice in the first reply I left you a few questions back, but either you really are crazy or you are writing these questions to attract attention, which you are doing. If you are serious about any of this, do yourself a favor and put your baby up for adoption.. I mean, do your baby a favor. You are treating her just the way you said you were treated by your mother. She is going to grow up to hate you if she doesn't already! And here's another idea.. Stop having babies!!
2006-06-26 09:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine you were the same with your parents when you were a baby...throwing toys, screaming, etc. Why haven't they killed you yet?
I'll be the first to admit that both of my kids do sometimes get on my last nerve. It's normal. You've had a bad day at work and you walk through the front door to a screaming 2 year old who's throwing a temper tantrum, and his 1 year old brother who's screaming and crying because his brother's temper tantrum has upset him. Who WOULDN'T get upset at that? I don't think I'm a bad parent because I get upset. I'm only human. It's the parents who smack/hit/beat their children who, I think, are BAD parents.
What is this aversion you have to babies? Are you barren, and now you're jealous?
2006-06-26 05:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow! I sure hope you don't have a baby, and if you do, I PRAY for that kid's safety that you place it with someone who WILL give a $h!t about it. DAMN.
Yeah, sure, kids can be very demanding, but hey - if you're not parent material, then DO NOT procreate!
Look at it this way - if it weren't for YOUR mother putting up with your whining, pooping, peeing, and well, being a baby, then YOU wouldn't be here!
Get some therapy and get yourself fixed before its too late!
2006-06-26 05:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋