being other woman, this doesnt mean i will right?? and i havent yet but i'm young and feel like i should allow these special people a little nibble of me...lol really tho where do i allow this to go??
2006-06-26 04:51:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its normal, I'm in a 4 year relationship right now and i do feel like "spreading the love around" but once we cross that line, we betray every line of trust that our partner put in us. and i dont think its fair for them.....
if you do think that you want to allow "nibbles" then maybe try talking to your partner about having an open relationship instead of an exclusive one (I'd like to see you try without her having your head as a bowling ball....lol)
my advice, DONT cross that line, upon crossing that line,it'll take a long time before she'll be able to trust you again.... don't screw it up( unless you are trying to of course)
good luck sweetie
2006-06-26 05:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you're right, you are young; but that doesn't mean you shouild be cheating on your g/f. You've been with her a year now and "nibbles" lead to cheating, like it or not. I've been married to the same wonderful lady for 25 years and that's one thing neither of us have done -- cheated on each other. Your g/f deserves the same consideration that you would want. If you're going to "nibble" then tell her. I think you two have a few things to talk out. Good luck.
2006-06-26 12:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't necessarily mean you will cheat on her, but if you allow "nibbles" from other people then you most certainly will cheat.
Just don't do it. If you don't want to be with her any longer than leave her with the new thing you want to "nibble".
2006-06-26 11:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Belie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya! im in exactly the same situation! When im with her its fine, and im pretty sure i love her. The minute i have time to myself or go to a gay club i find myself wishing i was single and wanting to cheat on her.. though i dont have the heart to, but im sure if the temptation was big enough id certainly crack :S
2006-06-27 03:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happens to all couples, it's normal to have thoughts about other people. Just because your committed doesn't mean your blind. As far as you acting on it thats up to you.
2006-06-26 11:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tom H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know darn well you're going to cheat! Just make sure that you're careful, AIDS is on the rise. Thanks for posting your picture so that we'll know who to look out for :) No really papi, do your thing. Good luck.
2006-06-26 12:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋