My boyfriend has friends that are girls. Which is ok with me. But he's kinda close with one of them. They text each other alot and he tells her what we argue about. She hangs out with us when we go out and he gets mad when I check his phone. I feel that since I am with him now they should cut back a little on the texting and calling. Am I wrong?
2006-06-26 04:12:46 · 22 answers · asked by Pink Princess 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You have every reason to be jealous, but here's a good way to get him back in your good graces. Start texting him! Take the attention away from her, and become his world, again! You are important, and he better remember that! Take care of yourself.
2006-06-26 04:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My ex was pulling the same ****...had a close female friend and she and he would call and text each other constantly, once I tried looking at his text messages and he got pissed and always kept his phone with him at all times, he even took it to the bathroom when he needed to go. He would also put a security lock on it when he took a shower, and I did not know the pin....He and she even talked and text when we went on vacation...Turns out , there was more then what met the eye, there. I am not saying that he is cheating on you...but I'd keep both eyes wide open at all times.
2006-06-26 11:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not feel that you are wrong,however, his argument will most likely be "if you don't have a problem with me having female friends, why do you have a problem with her?"
i do feel, that because of human nature, you may be a little insecure about the situation. if you trust him, then you should tell him how you feel, and if he really wants to be with you, he will take into consideration your feelings.
i have a lot of guy friends, a few i am really close to. i had to stop talking to my best friend as much as i used to when i met my son's father because for one, he was my new best friend, and i understood that he would be insecure if i feel i need to hang with my friend more than him.
bottom line: if it is meant to be, then things will work out. but closed mouths don't get fed, so let him know how you feel for the sake of your sanity, if nothing else.
2006-06-26 11:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by lnhymon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, half and half! If you are with him you should trust him, yeah I know, that sucks because alot of us girls can't trust any man. But you can't just tell him, stop hanging with her... which may be what you need to do later on.... just sit him down and tell him how you feel and that you want to have some alone time... like just between you and him... if he wants this relationship to work, he'll understand where you are coming from.... and if not, then you are the only one interested with this relationship. Good Luck!
2006-06-26 11:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by lucki_charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and I think she KNOWS better too.She does need to back off and if she had any class about herself she would no your boyfriend also needs to cut the time that he spends with her too!!
It's the 2 of you in a relationship not a 3 some !! Talk to him about it and if he can't seem to compromise a little then move on to someone that will give you 100% only to you !!!
2006-06-26 11:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by midnightsmokerchic23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...you are not wrong....he does needs to cut back chit chatting with that other girl. When you are in a relationship NOBODY and I mean NOBODY should know what is going on in your relationship but you two guys..(unless he's abusive then you tell the world!)....i personally dont trust females so you need to put your foot down and let him know whats up..maybe he likes her..either way you need to nip that in the bud now..before it gets out of hand.....never trust a female when it comes to your man..you know and every other female on here knows that many females have ulterior motives...so be careful whose around your man. If he loves you he SHOULD respect your decision and at least TRY to compromise with you.
2006-06-26 11:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be out of line here, but I am not quite sure why this is under pregnancy, it clearly has nothing to do with pregnancy.
But to answer your question, you need to tell him how you feel asap. I was in the same situation as you last year. My exhusband was extremely close with this girl that was his 'friend' and low and behold He divorced me for her, last fall. You definatly need to say something to him before its too late. Good luck!
2006-06-26 11:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are wrong! You should sit down and have a talk with him and ask him how would he feel if he were in your shoes. If you had a male friend I don't think he would be understanding with the same situation.
2006-06-26 11:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by new06mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust.....NO relationship.....However, if he knows how you feel about this particular girl and still won't let you check his phone and still hangs out with her(knowing it bothers you....) then he's not worth the emotional rollercoaster you're on anyway.
Good luck!
2006-06-26 11:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by chicknroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u'r wrong for being Insecure but Ur right for being jealous it come with the territory so let him know how u feel and ask him if he would like u to be doing da same thing
2006-06-26 11:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋