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2006-06-26 04:04:46 · 19 answers · asked by lisalau 5 in Dining Out ➔ Singapore
there ain't no way you should tell her that, you know you two will not be Friends if you do.
2006-06-26 04:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ummm.... you're screwed any way you approach this.... the easy way out would be not to tell her. But for your own sense of self-respect and hers, you owe her an explanation and apology to her face. You need to take responsibility for this mistake that you made. Whether or not her boyfriend will tell her is up to him. Don't expect her to forgive you. Just be a good person and get it over with.
2006-06-26 11:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to tell her? I mean the fact is you already slept with her bf. Don't tell me, you trying to prove to her that you're the winner, a slut who sleep with her boyfriend. If you really treat her as your GOOD friend, I guess you'll treasure the friendship and will not do anything to hurt your this GOOD friend. I hope I'll not know any friend who is like you. Seriously think about it. I guess you don't want your friend who sleep with your boyfriend/husband next time.
2006-06-28 09:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Jiang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell???
Is the boyfriend gonna tell?
Is the guilt just consumiong you?
There isnt any reason to tell.
If you tell, you are just going to ruin what she thinks is a friendship.
I would tell only if you dont care about being friends again.
If you chose to tell. Just be honest, and up front.
2006-06-26 12:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... I had to tell my frined this ... I told her I had something important to tell her and she came over to my house.... I told her I wanted to be honset with her and that I couldn't keep it from her any longer. I told her I had sex with him, she was really pissed, she suspected he was cheating and was relieved it was me and not anyone else actually.... I tld her I was sorry for hurting her.( I didn't say I was sorry for what had happened , because WE had a good time and I don't regret it at all) I didn't blame him either I said we both give each other the oppertunity. just be honest...then give her her space until she is ready to except it and either talk to you or move on...
2006-06-26 11:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was very wrong. If you are going to tell her, which you should, you need to tell her straight away. It will hurt her but finding out later or from someone else will hurt even more.
2006-06-26 14:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by fidget 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth because if she is your friend she will be mad at you but after a little bit she will be your friend again
2006-06-26 11:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess i will bring this matter down into my coffin...since she is your friend i believed that you n her have gd times together....n you actually had sex with her boyfriend.....its pretty hurting to know that that girl is actually some1 close to her....
if her bf didnt say a single thing....jus let this matter past and dont do it again...
2006-06-27 03:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her. Then go on a very long vacation. With her boyfriend.
2006-06-26 11:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats bad u should never do that to ur friend its gonna hurt her to find out what kind of friend u really is.I think u should tell her but that u gonna make yall lost yall friendship so i dont think u should tell her but she gonna find out someday.
2006-06-26 21:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by CUTEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way. You're going to hurt her alot. You had the ba**s to sleep with him, NOW, have the ba**s to tell her face to face.
2006-06-26 11:15:33 · answer #11 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋