In my case i am big and beautiful hardworking and a wonderful person all around but my man only wants me to lose weight. So i found out he's cheating on me with a skinny little skank. but he says he'll marry me an bang me more if i lose about 60 pounds; however he himself is about 30 lbs over weight and i love him like that.
My big brothers are big and they have good women that are thinner and love them so what's the deal? Even when it comes to sex my man gets what he wants and needs cuz i give it up no questions asked so help me out here.
2006-06-26 03:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it all comes down to the way woman are portrayed in the media or on TV. especially,in America. American men are the majority of men that want "the perfect woman". HA HA! they live in a dream world.
they think she should look & do what these porn stars do. and anyways half of these skinny,small woman are full plastic parts. fake ! too bad they can't get some brains to go w/ their implants.
sounds like your a good person ----don't change for anyone,but yourself.
2006-06-26 04:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by malak 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Lose that loser- he is cheating on you! Don't ever stay with a man who cheats on you- he will do it again. As or you being big n beautiful, there is a man out there for you and will love you no matter what size you are or aren't. If you love yourself, there is no reason to lose any weight.
If you think you need to change, change only for yourself.
2006-06-26 11:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not true. Alot of men love big women. Wait for the right one and don't let the jerks get you down.
2006-06-26 11:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
think you need a real man-all women are beautiful they just come in different shapes and sizes-lots of love old hippie here
2006-06-26 12:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by bergice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he will cheat on you now he will cheat on you then, even if you lose wait it's not you he's just a jerk
2006-06-26 11:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by miracle man 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new man there are men out there that date big women and treat them like queens, my suggestion is to look for one of them. and who "bangs" that is so tacky and loveless sounding.
2006-06-26 11:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by meredith o 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go with it and become swingers. You bang who ever and always get your needs met
2006-06-26 12:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have no idea
2006-06-26 11:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by kandyman4884 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋