what are some signs of depression my family seems to think that i am going thru depression but i dont think ti

Question

ok heres the deal i am married 32 yrs old with 4 kids only 3 at home my marriage is falling apart i have had hell for three years and now i dont have the same love for her that i once had i have told her and everyone else but they just seem to think that i am going thru depression i am always mad and very irratated which is not me at all this whole deal is even affecting my work can anyone out there please help me yes there has been suicidal thoughts and attempts in the past but i dont think that that is a threat right now i just want to feel normal again

Answer 1

i think that since you don't feel that love for your wife no more.....you want to free.....let go of your responsabilities.....and do another life with another interesting woman or womens......oh,....yes,.....life will be a paradise, for you, and your new mates.........but think again.......that like the drunker that has many problems and instead of dealing one by one, he wants to deals with all of them at once and so he can't solve his problems, he runs to get all drunk, like if the beer will make the problem go away.......he is being foolish by himself......no one else.........are you that way......do you want to let go, of what you have constructed, let me tell you what you have constructed.....first, you met your wife which back then she just was your beatiful girlfriend......remember those days,....those days, were pleasant days no doubt about it.....but then you have your first kid, and everyone in your home were happy that everything went right in the emergency room......great.....you kept working and there another kid coming up, and another and another.......you have built a family.....and a family should be that a family....is the structure that makes up a city.....and a city is what makes up a state......and so on......so you are an important resource in your community, to your neighbors, to your police enforcement, to everything that surrounds you......and you are about to drop all that, including your family, your own kids and wife to nothing.....cause once you leave your family.....your wife is going to get hurt, your kids are going to be hurt, your family members from both sides hers, and yours, are going to be hurt.....and just because you feel that you don't feel that same love to your wife......does it makes sense....or I am missing something......well, for me is all i have to say and i think that for the best of all of you......get a bible study.....to help you get and make the right decision in this......thanks.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are unhappy. Do you feel like you have no interest in your favorite things? You feel like you would rather sleep than do things that once brought you happiness? Maybe you should go to a doctor and make sure that you don't have an in-balance in diet or hormones. I would consult a doctor first. Best wishes for you and your family. P.S. we all have moments where we don't know why we feel the way we do, fits of anger, irritation, depression, etc. It's natural but it's important for you to remember that you have a family by your side...one that cared enough to say something to you instead of letting it go on and stuffing the feelings inside where it can turn into resentment, anger, frustration and hatred. Count your blessings everyday.

Answer 3

Over the last five years I had begun to have increasingly withdraw into a downward spiral of depression..

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Helping you eliminate depression?

Answer 4

I think it is depression you may not think so but the way i hear it, it is. I went through depression a while back and i felt the same as you. I talked to a therapist and told them how im feel. at first u think that it wont work but it does. once u have of suicidal thoughts i think that u should get some help theres medication that helps too.

Answer 5

Sleep disorder usually waking up early. Change of habits with loss of interest in things you liked. Mood swings and anger. Teenagers are very suseptible to depression, and if your family wants you to see a psychiatrist, doing so is a wise choice.

Answer 6

sounds like depression to me! get your self better first, only when you are happy will your life(as it seems)be happy.seek the help of a professional. getting help doesn't mean you weak or helpless; it means your realize that there is a problem and knowing that makes you smart in my book. you've got to be willing to do the work in order to get better and it's not a piece of cake(quite hard at times)! go slow!!!!!! it took you x-years to get to that point it might take that long to get back! remember that there is always a tomorrow for things to get better! hope is all we have sometimes!!

Answer 7

I think it just sounds like you are unhappy with your whole life and feel trapped. That would depress anyone. In order to relieve the depression is to remove the source. Perhaps you should try a separation and see if the depression eases....if it doesn't please see a doctor.

Answer 8

I've been through this, you are chemically depressed.

Always mad
easily irratated
suicidal thoughts

Yes, depressed. See your doctor immediately. It might take several different attemts with different drugs to find one that works, or just take time, don't give up. See your doctor.

Answer 9

-You don't enjoy what you used to enjoy anymore
-Lack of energy, fatigue
- Difficulty sleeping or staying sleep
-Change on your eating habits (not eating or eating too much)
-Your mood interferes with your work and your family life.
-Feeling of being hopeless

If you feel that something is wrong, please seek the advice od a professional. No one here can diagnose an illness. I will recommend for you to find proper medical attention.

Good luck.

Answer 10

some depression sign is u do not talk, eat, always sad, just want to be a long all the time. please get help