I found this guy, he made me so happy and we didnt do anything but laugh together((matt)), then i saw my x bf((brad)) and i got really sad. he asked for me back and without thinking about it i broke it off with the guy i was with((matt)) and got back together with my x((brad)). Sure i am happy with my x((brad)) but i cant stop thinking about ((matt)) i feel like i may have made the wrong decision. Is it just because its how a break up feels or because i made the wrong decision??...Should i be with brad or should i be with matt? please help me!
2006-06-26 03:45:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you should be with matt. he really does love you. i know. i know because i am matt. I know you made a bad descision, and you do too. but i also want you to know that i will be here for you when you snap back to reality. i dont want to because you really did hurt me, but i am going to be because i dont want to see you hurt. ill always be here for you no matter what. if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, or someone to talk to. and i think you should know that i still love you and i know everybody makes mistakes. but anything you need, i got you baby! I LOVE YOU!
2006-06-26 03:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way I can tell you who is right for you, but maybe I can help you make that decision for yourself. Ask yourself, who do I think about when I'm alone? Who do I daydream about? Do you think of Matt while you are out with Brad? Did you think of Brad when you went out with Matt? If you feel that you made the right decision, then maybe you are just worried that you may have lost a good guy. If you feel you made the wrong decision, then you may not be as over your ex as you thought, and you may need to get closure. Just think about why you broke up with your ex in the first place. Has whatever bothered you before really changed? I think you should look deep inside yourself and ask these questions, and that's the only place you'll find the real answer.
2006-06-26 03:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On this one you should definitely follow your heart. Do you think that Brad asked you out because he saw you with another guy, and knew that you still had feelings for him? If so then , you probably made the wrong decision. Do you enjoy the time that you spend with Matt, more so than the time that you spend with Brad? If so you've made the wrong decision. In life you must always have control of your own destiny in love, never leave it up to someone else, or you're going to open yourself up for an enormous amount of heartbreak. Matt may not trust you with his heart again, and if he does, how will you protect it? Follow your heart, as long as it's not leading you into anything that may be detrimental to you. Good luck.
2006-06-26 03:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should follow your heart. i don't think u should go with brad because u may be repeating the same steps u did the first time around with him. U should go with your gut instinct.... which is always right. I think u should give Matt a chance because if u were truly happy with Brad then no one else would matter.
2006-06-26 03:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mahogany D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one this!
Really normally ex's should stay that way - but I guess a lot depends on why he was your ex? What made you break up the first time round?
Also how long ago was it you broke up with him and how long had you been with the new one (Matt).
Sorry probably not helping with so many questions - but difficut to say without knowing a little more.
I know it sounds rubbish but I am getting on a bit now in my years - and really believe most things happen and turn out ok - you are only 16 so I'm sure you will be happy :)
x
2006-06-26 03:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by epsonvwc760 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you broke up with brad in the first place then you shouldn't be wanting him back. and if you want brad back then you shouldn't of went looking for a new boyfirend. But if you are happy with brad then stay with him. but if you want matt back then go back to him.
2006-06-26 03:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart....but i warn you Matt probably won't take you back. you probably shouldn't go back to Matt because he may always have the fear now that you will go back to brad. Sucks making bad decisions.
2006-06-26 03:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why your ex is your ex girlfriend. Go back to Brad if thats what your hearts telling you to do.
2006-06-26 04:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by q_ri_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ur still thinking about matt, then yes you made the wrong decision. its not how a break up feels unless you're depressed. which guy can you be more yourself around?
2006-06-26 03:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by buttercupbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to know if you made the wrong decision, you must first realize why you broke up with your ex to begin with; there was a reason.
2006-06-26 03:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋