2006-06-26 03:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by solivares14 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Everyone desires to be loved. Often, because of occurrences in our lives, we do not feel the love we would like.
One big problem wanting love is often, and especially girls, they offer their body in exchange for what they think is love. They get the attention they desire and equate it to being loved. This will only start a vicious cycle of a long string of males only wanting you for sex. You will loose even more self-esteem and feel more unloved. This will in-turn start you looking for the next person to "love" you.
Find some group to associate with. If you are still in school, work on the year book or school newspaper if you have one in your school. Most schools today have many organizations to join then be a real participant.
If you are a young adult or adult, look for book clubs that do discussions, or volunteer at hospitals or other civic organizations. Run for a city office.
The last thing you want to do is join the bar scene because that will lead you right back into the sex for love thing.
If none of this sounds good to you then just love yourself! But Love is never a sin!
2006-06-26 05:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to be loved is a normal human need that we all have. The problem comes when you pick the wrong guy or reason to recieve love from. I slept with a bunch of guys that turned out to be creeps just because they said they "loved" me. Just be careful how you give your love away.
2006-06-26 04:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by klassy61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not a sin....just remember though that it's more important to be loved by someone who really loves you then to waste your time being with someone who treats you bad. I would rather be alone then have some guy treat me bad. (been there, done that) True love is when you love someone for who they really are - not for who you want them to be.
2006-06-26 07:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? You don't get enough love. Well, I am sure it's just an emo moment of yours. Remember there is someone out there that you mean the world to, maybe you know them maybe you don't. I always was told that when I was smaller. It made me smile. I did find him.
2006-06-26 03:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to feel love sweetheart to to 1st love yourself. From the inside out. Dwell on your good qualities.
2006-06-26 03:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by misstree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sin in wanting to be loved. Its what you do to ATTAIN being loved which could be a sin. Sex is not love. Love is not sex.
2006-07-03 01:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a sin to crave love. every person needs to know that he or she is special to someone else. it gives you that warm feeling that at least one person in the entire universe cares about you, your life, your direction, your emotions and basically, every thing that concerns you.
we all need to feel loved. we bloom like flowers when we are loved. we go the extra mile to achieve things when we arte loved. please dont feel bad about looking for love. but avoid looking for it in all the wrong places, it wont pay you.
2006-06-26 03:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are loved-by your family and friends. Learn to love yourself first.
2006-06-26 04:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by emmasahottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one to be LOVED, one must learn how to be LOVED, so that one may love truly, and deeply.
2006-06-26 03:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Insight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that your parents love you very much.
2006-06-26 04:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋