My boand i had been together for a year, but like four days ago i go t mad at him for not answering the phone, i tried to call him more than 20 times, but nothing... We had braken up before, adn i am the one that tries to make our relationship come back to life, but then he says no... he let some days pass and then goes and begg me to go back with him... so now i was tired of been the one that begs first so i havent call him, but i dont know what to do, i love him to death, and i had done a lot of things for him, very risky things... now i feel like if i should test him, but im not sure, what should i doooo?????????? i dont want him to leave me, and i know that may be he would if i dont call, should i call, should i let him brake up with me and see if he really loves and would come back?? I really thrust him, and love him, i dont want to lose him, What should i do?
2006-06-26 03:36:06 · 10 answers · asked by my_sweet_love <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do people continually struggle with a dead relationship. Love does not involove these kind of stupid petty little games. Move on or grow up already.
2006-06-26 03:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love him and trust him,then u would not have created this thread. I was in a relationship for 5 yrs. And like u I was the one always trying to talk about the problems and try to make things better between he and I. A girl can only take but so much. He has become very comfortable. Becasue U always take him. I finally realize that I was putting 100% while he gave nothing. He would always say I try to do better,but he never did. If u r not happy,u must find your happines. IF he can go days without at least talking to u,then u no longer wants u...
2006-06-26 03:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I went threw the same thing and trust me At this time in my life i still live in What if's..... What if i would have broken up with him and satyed that way...... Sometimes i think i would have been better off but sometime i dont ..... The last thing i did was to really let him go..... It's like the saying goes " If u let the bird go and he comes back , then he was ment to be yours.... But if he does then it was never ment to be"...... Good Luck u Know deep down inside what u should do.... the thing is u dont want to listen!!
2006-06-26 03:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Slow down stalker girl and get some help already. Try talking to a therapist. If you're on a makeup/breakup merry go round with him, then your relationship is not stable. Nobody wants someone to call him 20 times and freak out. But you both have trust and respect issues. As to the risky things, take a break and get tested (or talk to someone to help you get straightened out).
2006-06-26 03:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be able to talk to each other to work out problems. not begging to be taken back. Every relationship is going to have problems, all of them. What makes a relationship strong and worthwhile is how you guys can deal with those problems. If the way he handles problems in not congruent to how you do then it might be time to see other people. there are so many people in the world to try and make a dead relationship work. easier said then done though cause I know how hard it can be when you're stuck on someone. good luck and I hope things work out.
2006-06-26 04:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you say you trust him, but it seems to me that he's not very trustworthy. You need to let him go. He's obviously not into this relationship as much as you are. If he's not going to answer the phone when you call, maybe you should take that as a sign that he's just not playing the same game you are. I know you think you love him, but if he was the one God has for you, there wouldn't be any doubt and you wouldn't have to "test" him. That's not a good sign!
2006-06-26 03:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by sandhsand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read your older questions. Seems you've been having problems with this guy for months. You probably should get over it. You're only 15, right? You are much too young to be obsessing over this guy. Focus on something else, and cut loose of him. Besides, he's 21. Chances are he's realizing you are too young for him. Not to be rude, but maybe you should spend some time studying grammar and spelling instead of worrying about this guy who wanted you to have a kid already. Also, 20 calls is stalking. Nobody is going to respond to that. It's annoying, at best.
2006-06-26 03:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it is it hurts but if he loves u the way u think he does and u dont call him or try to make it work once he realizes what he lost he'll come back to u and wont do that again. and if he dont come back to u or call then that just shows that he dont care and he justs wants something different. its gonna hurt to do this but stay strong and good luck.
2006-06-26 04:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by nativeangel_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell im exactlly what you just told us. i mean what can it hurt. if i were in the mess thst your in i would be thankfull hes gone it sounds to me like he is putting you through a lot of trouble . that you dont need. really this is for you to decide and no matter what anyone tells you your gunna have to make up your mind cause if some one else does you might regret it
2006-06-26 03:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by lil_bit_ 44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will even though im sitting rite next to you to tell you the truth you should never test a guy because it just says that you dont trust him give him time and trust me hell call you if he really loves you trust me i know
2006-06-26 03:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋