2006-06-26 03:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by kriselda_ganda! 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You are hanging out with the wrong guys, real men dont hurt women, any more than the women hurt us (via a verbal argument or soemthing like that)
2006-06-26 03:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by bmwdriver11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question contains the assumption "almost all".
Some boys hurt girls.
Some boys like hurting girls.
I assume you mean emotionally.
Girls mature faster than boys and are ready for more serious relationships sooner. Generally, boys are less apt to "wear their emotions on their sleeve". Girls "invest" more readily in the emotions of a relationship, therefore are more apt to feel hurt when the feelings are not returned in kind.
2006-06-26 03:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by rkelly5615 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counterquestion for girls: why is it that almost all of you like boys who hurt you?
Of course, the answer is in the question. If a girl likes a boy, this boy can be said to have a certain power over that girl. So then he will see how for his power reaches: how far he can go. For man's will to power knows no satiety.
2006-06-26 03:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by sauwelios@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are generally not as sensitive emotionally as ladies. i wouldn't say most guys hurt women intentionally. it'd be more along the lines of "well, it wouldn't upset me if someone did that,, so why should she be any different?" mostly, what we're talking about here is a misunderstanding between the sexes as to what "hurts". for a guy, its a kick to the nuts, for a girl, it's not remembering the birthday. of course, some people are just b*****d's anyway. avoid those ones.
2006-06-26 05:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't get over these bodies we were given. We men, like women, have no choice as to what our bodies are, not to mention, how they function. Boys going after girls is just a deep innate process that has been going on for a countless amount of time, and this is what has gotten both of us here today. If men didn't "hunt" for girls (lets not forget that girls "hunt" for guys too), then none of us would be here, and we wouldn't have been here for those countless ages of ancestors.
2006-06-26 03:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by The Witten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that boys hurt girls. Unfortunately, with a lot of females that I have dated they tend to develop an image of what our relationship is going to be in their minds without conferring to me about it. So, they have expectations of a relationship that I suppose to be a part of but I am totally unaware of what this relationship is suppose to be. You know a girl sees a really cute guy and she wants him to love her and only her, but all the girls want this same guy to love them. We have to have realistic expectations. Communicate with any guy and you will find that girls are not hurt as often as you may think. Girls and Boys both just have different expectations of what a relationship is suppose to be.
2006-06-26 04:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by JazzyJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a guy i also agree that most guys can be jerks but there are some guys that are not like that and end up getting Hurt by girls.
2006-06-26 04:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by deliriou21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only hurt the ones we love.
2006-06-26 03:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by mattd550 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a philosophy question? Are you seeking the "why" of hurting? Maybe you need to seek something more fundamental before you get into that.
2006-06-26 06:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by penKahn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well thats boys for ya...true men don't hurt women....or girls...:)
2006-06-26 03:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋