We are oceans apart and waiting to be together. Never met in person but deeply in love. We have known each other for the past two years but confessed our love for each other for about one year now. There is alot of other problems to settle before i leave my country to be with him forever.
2006-06-26 03:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by lovesick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my.. story of my life!
2006-06-26 03:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with an internet affair. While the web is a great window to socialize and meet people, is just not practical when it comes to love if your a thousands of miles apart. . It will hurt and it could take a long time before you get to see each other. I know that you deeply care for the guy, but it isn't real until it is. I know that that is probally what you don't want to hear, but I choose to tell the truth.
Good luck
2006-06-26 10:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you my story ....i meet my husband 11 years ago in London for 3 days....i fell in love with him but i was living in Romania, he was living in the US...i had school he had college here....7 years after...we reconnected over the Internet fell in love again and i came here for a vacation for 3 weeks. At the end of the 3 weeks we were engaged...but still i had to go home i had med-school , family friends...all my life home and he had his business here....In Oct ( 2 months after the vacation) he came to Romania and asked my dad for permission to marry me....we did all the forms, and 6 months later we were married....Now we both live in the US and our marriage is really a match made in heaven. Don't loose hope..what's yours is set aside ( if you guys are meant to be together things will just work out that way)
All you have to do is be patient and believe in your relationship. Things will work out somehow. Write me if you need help or support.
Best of luck to you.
2006-06-26 10:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by ilfecoach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some stories have worked well, nothing is impossible.Your story can succeed if both of U open up with each other...but U should keeping on being real don't try to do things bcoz of your feelings. Avoid forcing your ways, dont try to go joining him without his consent babe! Let that time come itself....Keep well!
2006-06-26 12:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should proabably go about it slowly and not rush to stop your entire life to move for this person. i know you feel like you "KNOW" him completely, but arrange to meet first, go on a small trip somewhere on neutral ground (if you're really so far away, make it a whole vacation). be smart and safe, as if you met him online (i'm guess you have) you never know what to expect. and mind you, i'm talking from really positive experience as i met a guy i've been really close to for 4 years and he turned out everything i wanted in a man!
good luck!
2006-06-26 10:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about it and do something about it. if you really want to be with this person solve the problems at hand and go for it. try starting with a holiday or visit together and find out if he is really the person for you.
2006-06-26 10:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy?Don't do it because you don't know if he is even a man.You could really get into trouble. You could be sold into slavery or tortured. It is so not safe. Let him come to see you,where you are on familiar ground and know people who can look out for you.
2006-06-26 10:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by ejtme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey love is a powerful thing... it can go either way... so be careful in how much you sacrifice. You will either love him to death or you will love to hate him!!! Not many people are as gutsy as you... make sure you know what you want... :)
2006-06-26 11:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by davenlinshart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and watch. .. i had a similar situation. u guys need to meet p before u decide anything further. meet up on a holiday and stay for atleast a month.if u guys still think ur on... go for it.
2006-06-26 10:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by tobeornottobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not what you think it is.............but hey is your life.......go ahead make it misserable............there is not such a thing as love specially if you have never met this person before........think before you take any action or decision................this is for you best...............try to find true love, by means of getting close the person you want to be in love,.............
2006-06-26 10:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by israelmoya20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you meet this person before you vow devoted love. they may not be what you expect
2006-06-26 10:28:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋