will my parants ever like my boyfriend?

Question

they just dont like my boyfriend but they like my brothers girlfriend

he is so nice i am goin greece on wednesday and he gave me £100 pound spending money and we are only 16! and still the parants think he is strange for doing that thinking he wants me to ave sex wid him dats why he paid me BUT IT AINT he gave me it coz he sed he loves mex

Answer 1

Probably not, I'm a girl and my parents like my boyfriend, they don't like my sisters boyfriend though.
I suppose it might be how he is around them, who knows.

Answer 2

Ooooh, sounds very familiar.
Unfortunatly, from experience, they will always compare your bf to your brothers "perfect" partner, and they will never match up...ever.
The best you can hope for is that in time they will realise that there is nothing that they can do to change the fact that you are with this bloke, and a level of "acceptance" will follow -
He may shock them one day, and do something wonderful for you and your parents may be forced to eat there words, however things can also go the other way if he steps out of line just the tiniest bit -
Fingers crossed for your sake that things work out - I really do.

Answer 3

why so serious? Your only 16, your parents will just be looking out for you. At the end of the day their only concern is that someone might hurt the child they love. Have you sat down with them and asked them why they dont like him? If you think your old enough for a serious relationship your old enough to talk properly to your parents about the situation.

Answer 4

Surely there is a reason why your parents dont like your boyfriend?! Cant you sit both of your parents down, and talk to them, together as adults?! If you put your point across just how much he means to you, and that you would prefer it if they gave him a chance because you are staying with him either way.
Let them know that its getting to you, the fact that they are fine with your brothers girlfriend but not with your boyfriend?
Theres not much more to say i dont think, except for Good Luck, i hope you manage to talk them round! xx

Answer 5

He sounds really lovely and its one a million chance that you'll ever find some one like him again. not to sound horrible it seems like your parents like your brother (like they favour him) more than you if they like his girl friend better than your boyfriend.
I reckon the best thing to do is to have a serious talk with your parents about how you feel and about how much you care about your boyfriend and that they haven't had the chance to know him properly. tell them again what he's done for you and that its hardly possible that all guys can do that (like the ones Ive seen out and about!!). Find out why they don't like him... there no point in disliking someone unless they have done something that has offended you!

Hope everything sorts out with this situation. Good luck. xx

Answer 6

Not a chance I'm afraid. The same as his parents will never like you. It's the law, apparently.

Unless he's very, very rich. I went out with a very rich man once and my Dad liked him a lot. My father was more gutted than my boyfriend when I dumped him!

Answer 7

in time they will realise that his intentions are honourable,as a father,i was very protective of my daughter regatding whom she seen,many a time i have warn the boy in question,that if messes with my daughter he messes with me.she is now in a stable relationship and now21 yrs old i have had to learn to let her go and let make her own mistakes and learn from them,as her only parent i can only be there for her when she needs me and i always will be,.your parents will be going through the same as what i did,we always think our children are too good for that person and they can do better..

Answer 8

well i guess you have 2 ask urself that there is a reson why ur parents dnt like ur bf...so ask them...sometimes we dont c the bad things abt our bf...trus me i noe 4rm experience! but parents are always over protective of girls because we can be used and then we are the ones who end up hurting inside not the males!!! so why dont you try talking to your parents and see why they dont like this boy maybe they know something about him that you dont? good luck hope it all works out with you two!

Answer 9

Depends how old you are sweetie, if you are a young teenager ( not a chance of them liking any bloke you bring home) if you are older, then maybe there's something about your bloke they honestly just don't like.

Sit them down tell them you believe they don't like him, and could they please explain why. This should clear the air, you will know why, and maybe work on that.

Good luck ( daughters are very special though babe )

Answer 10

its not always possible for people to like eachother even if a majority of people do but maybe your parents will like your boyfriend if they have a genuine hang up and talk about it but if theyre just being off with him for the hell of it thats wrong. eveyone has the ability to get along if they are willing to accept understand and respect eachother. good luck.

Answer 11

Girl, parent will never like any body we like, its like the law of life, people they like we hate them, people we love the hate them... but it is mostly because they already lived their life and think that we will go throught the same stuff they did, they are scare of someone coming to take their girl from them, they are parents, and is hard for them to understand that we have our own life and that some day we have to leave, come on, they had been taking care of you since you were born, and for them it is unfair that someone comes and wants to take away what the had build... They got used to you, its going to be hard, but they will understand!!!!!!!!!