How in the world can a mother of three leave a child behind while she take the other two to Disney World? Her daughter is here visiting and her brothers are in Florida having all kinds of fun. Now the daughter is running around with her lip all poked out. Why couldn't she tell her dad that she can come visit after the family trip? The bad thing is she never includes her daughter on these family trips. She eithers send her to the paternal grandmother or send her up here to her dad. I just don't understand some women.
2006-06-26 03:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by DELETED 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This lady is now remarried but the three are not by the current husband. The boys have the same father whom refuses to pay any child support and the girl has a different who does pay child support. She sent the daughter here for the purpose of her dad to buy her clothes. People have been telling him that she uses the daughter's child support on the boys and the girl goes around looking rough and unwanted. I have two girls of my own but I would never do to them what she does to hers. If I plan a family trip, we all go and they can spend time with their dads when we return. I have never understood her. The child has a bad complex. She will sit here and just stare at the walls. I can't get her to go anywhere with my girls and me. It's real sad!!
2006-06-26 03:32:08 · update #1
Oh, by the way, she is 9 years old.
2006-06-26 03:33:17 · update #2
that is very sad i know. but there is not much that can be done. the best thing to say to the woman is god will judge her for doing that to an innocent child. the child does not deserve to be excluded from family events. it is wrong and will have an emotional impact on her older.
2006-06-26 03:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by wedjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is the daughter too young? I would not take a baby to Disney it is difficult to lug around the stroller and they dont' remember it anyway. I would never leave out say a five an upper because they will remember it and have fun and can do most of the things there. Are the boys from a different dad. Personally barring the physciality of it I would never leave my kids behind they are part of what makes Disney fun! That would be like leaving behind my right arm! I cannot do it! In fact If I won a free trip to disney four four I would give it away because we have six in our family and thoes free trip things sux becasue they are always for a family of four.
2006-06-26 10:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither do I and what a selfish and cruel thing she is doing to her own child. Maybe her Dad can take her somewhere fun and show her that she is loved and very important. I am sure she doesn't understand why she was left behind. Someone needs to spend some quality time with the little girl and let her have some fun too. Poor baby I feel so sorry for her. God bless
2006-06-26 10:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it either. I feel for her. These are the exact things that cause complexes. I wonder if she's thinking about that at Disneyworld.
This must not be her biological daughter? Or maybe she is no longer with the biological father?
Women like this fight tooth and nail and end up lost somewhere out on the field when their 50.
Hug that girl, she needs it.
2006-06-26 10:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by fiestygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I know what you mean! My mothers grandmother showed the same favoritism. She left my sister $10,000, and you know what me and my brother get? NADA. My sister has always got favorite treatment. Like whenever mom went somewhere, she had to go. Granted she is the only girl, its still not fair to me and my brother. Maybe its the fact they wanted boys or something? My mom wanted a girl and pampered the Huttslug.....We got the short end of the stick.. I think its the fact maybe they wanted boys and could play or really wanted a boy? I dont know.
2006-06-26 10:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds sickening! Are the brothers from the new marriage or share a father other than the sister?
Not that that is an excuse, but it might explain her reasoning. Thats just horrible. I would fight for custody, because if thats what she's doing to publicly display her disapproval of the child, imagine what she lives with!!
Thats just wretched!
2006-06-26 10:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day she will realize what is going on and will be hurt. Just let her know that she is loved more than anything in the world. She will need a soft place to land later.
2006-06-26 10:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nno , it is not OK, This is an issue that you or her dad should address as soon as possible. This could have serious affects on that little girl. Dad should also take her places though.
2006-06-26 10:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good reason to justify why a mother would do something like that. It does make one wonder just how well she treats her everyday.
2006-06-26 10:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty goofy. some people do have favorite children though. not sure if theres anything you can do about it.
2006-06-26 10:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋