it happened one day l told ma best friend who l fancy,then l asked her who she fancies she admitted to me that she fancies the same guy l fancy,l really felt jealous cuz she said he had ask him out and she said no cause she didnt want to hurt ma feelings and friendship.What should l do and l really like the guy
2006-06-26 02:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
look for someone else and dont leave your friend! she is very caring that she said no to a person she likes cause she didnt want to hurt you! very kind!
2006-06-26 09:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by *Shruti* 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ouch !!!!!
What a dilemma. All I can say is that friends are forever but men come and go.
Your friend is obviously putting your feelings first, I'd suggest you do the same. However if you truly are a friend, ( this guy obviously fancies your pal and she fancies him) So the likely hood of him asking you out are slim. Why not let them get together without animosity and you find a guy that fancies you.
You deserve more for yourself than to hold a candle for a guy that doesn't reciprocate your feelings.
Good luck sweetie xxx
2006-06-26 03:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by sukimitchell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really matters to who he likes best.. you must be a lot younger than the other woman... decide for yourself if you really like him that much..if you do well i guess you can ask him out too...but just think about it and see if he is really worth all the hazzle and if he is go for it...but i think you should really think this through first.. kind of find out about how your mother feels about the situation too..
2006-06-26 02:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear, he doesn’t fancy you cause if he did he would have asked you out long ago so just move on let that one be. maybe his for your friend.
If you still want him then asks him out and see what happens.
2006-06-26 03:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by kays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what you value more, your friend or this guy? your friend already proved that she values the friendship enough to turn down a guy she fancies. is one guy really worth disrupting a friendship?
2006-06-26 05:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by rinnasaurusrex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my friend both like the same guy and we just hang out with him its the closest you can get to him with out ruining your friendship
2006-06-26 09:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by babiigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the early bird gets the worm. I think you should ask him out.
2006-06-26 03:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Veski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man thats a tuffy just hope for the best that he is ment to be with you
2006-06-26 03:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else because he hasn't asked you to go out yet so he may not be interested in you.
2006-06-26 02:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this guy worth ruining you friend ship over?
2006-06-26 04:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋