Baby is born and maid.........................?

Question

We are high class people and A baby is born in our family and my mothers always gives it to the maid for playing with him. I dont allow her to do so when I m not at home but she always happily gives her to the maid when I'm not at home..? Is is ok to give a royal baby to people belonging to backward classes and lower classes? It is a boy.Is there anything that will affect the baby from the maid. tell me please it is important. And real answers please. I gotta tell it to mother by morning. Help!

Answer 1

If your baby is happy and responsive, bonding to you and your wife, I wouldn't worry.

Being responsible for a child is scary, and it sounds like you are really worried and scared right now. Hopefully you did a background check on this person prior to letting her into your home.

It's wonderful that your wife has support from another woman. In our culture, there are few women who will bond with another woman other than her mother or sister when it comes to her child. However, I really believe that a little assistance from a good woman in the raring of a child to be beneficial to both the child and mother. It will give you a happier home providing the maid has sound references and has never been arrested in any crime associated with children.

Check your baby for bruises. If the baby doesn't show anything, and is healthy, that's great. Try to join in on the baby's doctor visits and talk with him/her about the child's development and your personal concerns.

Answer 2

He will probably benefit more from the maid seeing how your high class mother can't take the time to care for her own. There's nothing wrong though with letting the maid take care of the baby, at least he will be well cared for and loved. Just because a person comes from a low class background, it does not mean they are unfit to care for a baby.In some cases they're probably better than the so called high class parents. Some children grow up with only the nanny/maid there for them. I think lower class people tend to look after their children better than "some" rich folks, who have the babies then leave them with the nanny/maid to care for them while they run off to have their tea luncheon's which are so much more important it seems.

Answer 3

Are you seriously suggesting that it takes only money to raise a child? That how much is in your bank account or what you do for a living effects how well you can care for a baby???? That is the most ignorant thing I have read so far today.

I don't mean to be rude but I am disgusted that you think a woman (who is a human being earning a living doing a job she probably hates just to support her and her family) would have anything BUT positive effects on the baby.

You can only hope that being played with, loved, cared for and taught by many other people from many different races, classes, cultures etc will produce a wonderfully caring, sympathetic, worldly child/adult.

Answer 4

mMMMM Let me think - Personally I believe the mother and father of the child should raise the child to pass on family values, developing the childs character, sharing in the child's interests, witnessing the childs successes and failures, being there when the child is hurt. I get the indication that the child needs an appointment to see the parents - that's very sad. What's worse is how the family looks at others as "backward calss and lower class". That's very sad also. That the children are being brought up with such prejudise.

Answer 5

People who don't have the time to dedicate to kids shouldn't have them. The fact that you are sitting here asking this question to us commoners and expect real answers shows the kind of person you are. Well here it is, if we are good enough to ask this question to, then why wouldn't your maid who is probably in the same class as most of us be good enough to be around the child?

Answer 6

Huh? You sure are high classed! Did your parents not send you to a good school? Because the way I see it, your maid could probably speak and write English better than you do.

Answer 7

first of all the maid is probley better to the baby than your mom is i dont think your rich just you wish you were
how ever with a mama like your any baby would be better off with the maid

Answer 8

well you wouldnt want the baby to get really close to the baby cuz what if the baby gets use to the maid and when you take the baby from her what if the baby starts crying for the maid back!!

Answer 9

Traditionally royal children are cared for and raised by servants, as the parents are far too busy and powerful to do their own parenting. I think your mother is just doing what has been done for thousands of years across hundreds of civilizations. Don't worry about it.

Answer 10

It would be OK for the maid to handle the baby.