You have been dating someone for some time (say 4 months) but she has not been clear. You see in some cultures, women find it hard to say yes. She tells you how she has a boyfriend, but when you don't call her for a day, she sends you messages about how you are deserting her. Now you want to propose marriage to such a person, do you go with a ring and try to have her put it on so that the message is delivered by accepting the ring or you wait until she says yes and you put the ring in her finger?
2006-06-26 02:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by quorora 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It doesn't seem like your relationship is developed enough to even consider marriage. If you're not sure don't ask. Wait and get to know her better!
2006-06-26 02:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by sonik_starz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to wait & get to know the person better than pop the question after 4 months. Plus, you never ask a woman to marry you unless you're pretty sure of the outcome (meaning she'll say yes). I wouldn't mind a guy asking me to marry him without a ring in hand if I truly loved him, because then we could go shopping together & get something we're both happy with.
2006-06-26 09:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her some more time since she seems a little wishy washy on her boyfriend. Fickle, you might say. Make sure he's out of the picture before proposing to her so she is more balanced with her answer. I think that if she was serious about either of you there would only be one in the picture. One of you has to go. She might too scared of hurting him by breaking up with him but it has to be done. Then I would bring proposing into consideration.
2006-06-26 09:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 me 4 months is not long. It sounds as if u need 2 date this girl a little longer before putting a ring on her finger! Marriage is big!!!!! But trust me if u love this girl.....u, yourself will know the right time 2 ask her.
2006-06-26 09:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by fly_away_amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to be 100% sure. On one hand she's saying she has a boyfriend, but the next she claims you're deserting her? Do NOT propose. It sounds like she is playing games with you.
2006-06-26 09:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies always love and appreciate true love. If you really love her, she will accept your proposal, provided she is not engaged with and loves some one other and meets you only for flirting. Proceed with your engagement ring and propose. How will she react don't be afraid. This will CERTAINLY clear, what she thinks about you? May ALMIGHTY HELP YOU.
2006-06-26 09:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i did that a couple of times with my wife before we got engaged, lol but man will you be nervous. i screwed up my proposal so bad, i cried like a baby, but you'll do fine. when its time you'll know
2006-06-26 09:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hafeman 5000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre gonna ask you should have the ring with you
2006-06-26 09:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by ian6868 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait...get to know her well enough, that you wouldnt have to ask yourself that question
2006-06-26 09:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by chocolate_krys2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie, step away from the bong. anyone that says she has a boyfriend?????? yeah, marry her! NOT!
2006-06-26 09:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by really? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋