how badly does it hurn when your hymn is first broken???
2006-06-26 01:44:56 · 25 answers · asked by brownhairbrowneyes 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should take your first foray into sex carefully, or rather than hurting it will quite likely disappoint both of you. Women often find their first sexual encounter painful, but this is as much because of nerves as any physical cause. The vagina is very elastic, and properly stimulated will enlarge to accommodate a generous penis. I strongly discourage you from rushing, and use a lubricant if you think that might help. Try to persuade your boyfriend not to go in too deep until you are ready - it doesn't matter if it takes him half an hour to go fully inside you (in fact you will probably both find this very pleasurable!). Take your first movements slowly and gently, and build up a rhythm you are both comfortable with. Do not go like jackhammers until you both want that. If (as is quite likely) he ejaculates into the condom before you get very far, he should be able to continue after a short break, by using a new condom after cleaning his penis. Erections in healthy young men do not collapse that quickly, if kept stimulated (you may wish to hold it gently while he relaxes, to keep it stiff). Practice makes perfect. Be careful, be loving, and USE A CONDOM!
2006-06-26 02:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Foor me it didn't hurt at all. I was scared to death that it would. All the girl that I knew in high school talked abouit the pain. I was 21 when I lost my virginity. I don't know if that made a diff or not. I was 9mons pregnant when my hymn was finaly broken. I have no ideal why it took that long. Maby it want be that bad. Try some KY jelly and a condum.
2006-06-26 09:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by josieshs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it varies on woman to woman... My mom can't handle pain very well and she said it hurt like a knife stabbing you up in there. But for me it wasn't even enough pain to make me cry out. It's just something you bare down and deal with. After a few minutes it goes away and starts feeling better. The first couple times you'll be sore, but after that, it's great!
But if you're under age, don't do it yet! I know everyone says that, but it's true. Boys in high school are SO not worth it. Trust me. You want your first time to be with a man you love, not a boy who doesn't even know what he's doing. ;-)
2006-06-26 14:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by red_rose6886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it wasn't that bad, but it did hurt, but not as much as people say it does. Plus if you've done sports such as horseback riding or gymnastics, most likely it already broke on it's own, so that way the pain will be very minimal.
2006-06-26 08:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine hurt for 3 days. Felt like I had a monkey hanging on my genitals swinging back and forth. Too Terrible!!!
2006-07-02 02:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first had sex, I thought I was having a pap smear. So when I had my first pap smear, it hurt so bad. It only hurts for about a minute or so and then the sex gets better.
2006-06-26 15:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite painful but if the guy knows what he's doing and is careful it doesn't hurt as bad.
2006-06-26 08:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by myhopelesslyshatteredheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur hyman my already be brokin u can break it by riding a bycicle or playin some sports or interactive things. but when mine broke it dint really hurt at all ur my be differnt tho
2006-06-26 13:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everybody is different. It hurts worse for some than others I think. You may bleed and you may not. I guess you won't know until you do it.
2006-06-26 08:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by KittyluvR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine hurt really, really bad. I actually had it popped when I went to the gyno for my first pap smear. It was not fun.
2006-06-26 12:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Rikki-Tikki-Tavi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋