He was raped as a child by some teenage boys. He has only had 3 girlfriends in his 30+ years. He has told me how he used to masterbate everyday, when single. He had sexual feelings for a male friend of his. He used to "loves" certain male actors. He is cowardly. He is a mummys boy. He told me he looks at guys (& women). He shaves his entire body now. He wants a handbag. He waxes his eyebrows occasionally. He uses womens facial cleanses. His male dominated job, his mum & his male mate come first. He has an attitude & behavioural problem - he doesnt know how to treat me well, especially when he gets angry.
2006-06-26 01:01:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best way to find out is to ask him. You've been with the guy two years, you have a right to know with you being at risk for HIV and STDs.
Being raped is a traumatic experience that is never forgotten
He could also have a bi-polar disorder. Eiither way, it definitely sounds like he needs professional counseling though.
2006-06-26 01:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by obiwanshu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him take him to a counselor immediately and if he doesn't come with you it means he is happy with the way he is and I think then you should get out of this relationship as soon as possible because it will eventually end in pain cause you are third on his list and he does not sound like he will ever be able to give you the real importance you deserve. rest is up to you. all the best and god bless.
2006-06-26 08:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by sudjenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him in a calm tone and ask him why he does these things. Make sure to him that are not judging him and just do this since it seems a bit and curious to you. Ask him why his male friends come first. If he gets upset then ask why he is so angry when you ask this. He sounds confused and bewiledered, but I would not say that he is definetely bisexual.
2006-06-26 08:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by francescototti1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the abuse he endured, I can say "me too" to all those things that you seem to see as "bisexual behaviour". And I'm certainly heterosexual.
I'm wondering why you're trying to guess his orientation rather than asking him. Are you afraid of confronting him?
Even if he his bisexual, you can still have a very solid/honest/loving intimate relationship with him.
What's the problem here?
2006-06-26 08:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by justcopyandpaste 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The masturbation thing isn't abnormal. I suspect 90% of the wankers on here do it every day, too.
2006-06-26 08:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have promised yourself to make this person normal !!!
He needs to forget that incidence and needs counselling to cope up with the incident.
Dare you are to be still with him.
2006-06-26 08:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? He seems more feminine then bisexual. Bisexual is more of the act itself I suppose, and many people have homoerotic fantasies. Doesn't mean he's gay or bisexual.
2006-06-26 08:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, he sounds like the guy that all girls want to spend their life with. What good things do you see in him?
2006-06-26 09:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got issues .move on to better things
2006-06-26 08:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by changeling 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a bad choice
2006-06-26 08:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋