I know it is is hard as we have 2 young children, and timing is an issue but there is opportunity, and I know when he says he is going for a little nap in the middle of day or after work exactly what he is doing, because I have caught him on numerous occasions, and then he wonders why I get so upset.
2006-06-26 00:50:47 · 20 answers · asked by dnn_crrn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is totally disrespectful to you, especially as you are a busy mother. He needs a shock from you. have a girlie night out with ur friends and get him to babysit (ok, so he will probably do the porn thing) but make sure you get really dressed up and guarenteed he will be wondering what ur up to. he needs to see you not just as a mother but as a sexy lady once again!
2006-06-26 00:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by need2know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn is addictive. Real life isnt the same. In a movie a couple meet and are naked with hardly any dialogue within seconds. There are never children or life issues to deal with. An addictive or obsessive personality can have trouble seperating the two. Maybe he expects you to act like your in the movie, and resents it when you dont. He needs to realize that his behavoir is destructive and stop. If he wont, I suggest a nap for you!
2006-06-26 08:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by rj c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your husband first and if that doesn’t work try to get help or marriage counseling because he could be addicted to porn which is a very serious issue and if things don’t change in time I think you guys should just separate or break up.
Good Luck!
2006-06-26 08:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Brown skin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having a serious problem here,,,,,well he is anyway.....He may be addicted to porn, but if youre not getting his attention then you need to leave him because obviously he wants more than what you are willing to give him. Do not blame yourself...He is the one with the problem, not you. Find yourself a man who will make you his pornstar and ou will find happiness. But, lose the perv.
2006-06-26 07:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by 100% Chance of Pain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is better for him to wacht porn than to cheat on you... If you are not there, WHo will? You need to take or make time for your relationship. Hey at night when the kids are sleeping make love to your husband
2006-06-26 07:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being insensitive. And you're responding to it. STOP! Rent a porn, watch it and leave it there for him to see. Stop being a (predictable) "mommy/wife". Dress hot and go out while he watches the kids. That will put a stop to it, trust me.
2006-06-26 08:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean, but do the girls in the videos dress and act sexier then you? The answer is probably yes, that is what they get paid to do. Try acting, and dressing sexier. Maybe watch one of his videos to get some suggestions. Spice it up.
2006-06-26 07:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is watchin it go up behind him. Whisper in his ear and lick it. Rub his shoulders and his chest slowly and i assure you he will turn around and kiss you and forget all about the porn... atleast that time. Well... it worked for me!!!! Good Luck
2006-06-26 07:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him reason to want to have sex with you rather then watch porn make your own porn with him or on your own leave it in his stash maybe if he has that there it will spark sexual interest again good luck lol sunshine
2006-06-26 07:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn with him. You'll be surprised. Stop being so uptight.
2006-06-26 07:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by gcaisle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋